What happens when we rethink love, relationships, and personal growth on our own terms?

In this episode, I’m re-airing my conversation with Molly Roden Winter, author of More: A Memoir of Open Marriage. Since our talk last year, her book has become a bestseller and a go-to reference for conversations about women reclaiming their sexuality in midlife.

Molly’s story isn’t just about open marriage—it’s about self-discovery, the emotional complexities of motherhood, and navigating relationships with honesty and resilience.

We discuss the fear of disrupting family harmony when adding a second child, only to realize love expands rather than divides. We also explore how long-term relationships teach us to navigate conflict, and how personal growth doesn’t follow a set path but unfolds in ways unique to each of us.

There’s humor, raw honesty, and an invitation to break free from societal norms—whether that means rethinking marriage, embracing personal freedom, or simply giving yourself permission to explore what truly makes you happy.

No matter where you stand on open relationships, there’s something here for anyone looking to untangle love, identity, and self-acceptance.

I’d love to hear your thoughts...

Have you read More: A Memoir of Open Marriage?

What parts resonated with you—or didn’t?

Could you relate to Molly’s experiences with love, motherhood, or personal growth?

How have your own relationships challenged or reinforced what you thought you knew about love and commitment?

Share your thoughts in the comments—I look forward to the discussion.

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