Ninety percent of what we learn is done in the nonconscious mind. Before we even realize it, we have said or done something we come to quickly regret. There is a part of you that has already made a decision on how to respond to life's circumstances and interpersonal interactions in order to keep you safe, but sometimes what seems safe is actually sabotage. On today's segment we discuss how this happens. Our hope is to get your wheels turning, look introspectively, and ask yourself why you are the way you are.