Can Human Design help you discover who you truly are beneath conditioning? In this thought-provoking episode of Universal Intimacy, Josephine Lauer sits down with Elton Anderson Jr. (L10)—Human Design educator, speaker, former celebrity photographer, and conscious leadership mentor—to explore how Human Design becomes a powerful tool for self-discovery, spiritual awakening, authentic living, and personal transformation.

After surviving a near-death experience while traveling abroad, Elton's life changed forever. His journey led him beyond external success and into a profound exploration of identity, purpose, consciousness, Human Design, and authentic self-expression. Together, Josephine and Elton discuss how Human Design goes far beyond personality typing. Instead, it offers a roadmap for understanding your energetic blueprint, breaking free from cultural conditioning, and living in deeper alignment with your true nature. 

In this deeply nourishing and soul-expanding conversation, Josephine Lauer sits down with intimacy guide, author, and intuitive teacher Shezza Sheryl, also known as The Intimacy Oracle, to explore how astrology can become a powerful map for understanding love, relationships, desire, and our deepest longings. Together they unpack why the relationships we crave often mirror our greatest opportunities for growth, healing, and embodiment. They explore the sacred role of longing, why suffering can become a catalyst for transformation rather than something to avoid, and how cultivating genuine self-love creates the foundation for conscious partnership. Josephine and Shezza also discuss the often-misunderstood practice of celibacy—not as deprivation, but as a potent season of devotion, self-discovery, and energetic refinement that can radically transform how we relate to intimacy. One of the most captivating moments of the episode unfolds as Shezza offers Josephine a live Intimacy Oracle Reading, intuitively weaving astrology, energetic insight, and spiritual guidance to illuminate what is unfolding in Josephine's love life in real time. Whether you're navigating dating, healing from heartbreak, calling in partnership, or simply seeking a deeper relationship with yourself, this reading offers wisdom that extends far beyond one person's story. In this episode, you'll discover: How astrology can illuminate your relationship patterns and romantic journey.

Shezza Sheryl is the author of Sexy New Earth and creator of the Divine & Alive Tantra course, blending astrology, intuition, Tantra, and embodied wisdom to help people awaken to love from the inside out. If you've ever wondered whether the universe is trying to tell you something about your love life, this episode offers a beautiful invitation to listen. Learn more about Shezza Sheryl, her work, and her offerings at https://shezzasheryl.love/.

This video presents a first! A Sym-podcast, a fusion of a podcast with a Symposium, an ancient Greco-Roman practice of oratory arts and rhetoric; individuals with various opinions gathering together to discuss a theme they are passionate about. And of course we are here to discuss the theme of Eros!

The participants, who include an intimacy coach, a bard, a scientist, a psychic/astrologer, a theater director and a somatic practitioner, a community organizer and Josephine, engage in a collective dialogue to examine how desire and erotic life force move humanity.

The Symposium Tradition

• Definition: The symposium is described as a gathering of loved ones who speak from the heart about topics they have studied and deeply care about.

• Purpose: It functions as a way to engage constructively and share diverse ideas, countering the divisiveness of modern "us versus them" culture.

• Feminine Inclusion: The group highlights the historical role of the hetaira (educated courtesan) in hosting such gatherings and aims to rewrite history by centering the feminine perspective.

Key Themes

Josephine sits down with teacher, facilitator, and guide Dawn Cherie to explore the intersection of sacred intimacy, aging, caring for elderly parents, death and the evolution of modern love.

Together, we unpack what it truly means to expand the capacity of the heart and why relationships remain one of our greatest paths for spiritual growth. Dawn shares profound insights on what prevents many of us from experiencing the depth of connection we long for, how to find the relationships that are truly right for us, and why sacredness is often found in the subtle moments we overlook.

We also dive into topics rarely discussed with honesty and reverence: menopause, perimenopause, wise womanhood, caregiving, and the cultural narratives surrounding aging. Dawn offers a refreshing perspective on how prayer, tantra, devotion, and intimacy can become powerful practices for cultivating vitality, purpose, and aliveness throughout every stage of life.

Drawing from her decades of work in sacred relationship, ritual, movement, and transformational facilitation, Dawn invites us into a new blueprint—one that honors love, embodiment, wisdom, and the sacred nature of being human.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why relationships are a path of spiritual awakening

• What limits our capacity for love and intimacy

• The subtle nature of sacredness and devotion

• Prayer, tantra, and the "anti-aging" secret to vitality

• Menopause, perimenopause, and reclaiming wise womanhood • Caregiving, loss, and life's unexpected initiations

• The evolving dynamics between men and women today

• Creating a new blueprint for conscious relationships

• Why intimacy work matters now more than ever

This conversation is an invitation to live more fully, love more deeply, and remember the sacredness woven through every stage of life.

Josephine sits with trauma therapist, men's coach, and masculine embodiment teacher Steve Ware to explore the evolving landscape of masculinity, relationships, healing, and embodied leadership. Together, we dive into the heart of what many men are longing for: a path beyond performance, disconnection, and outdated gender roles. Steve shares his perspective on the emergence of a new blueprint for men—one rooted in presence, emotional depth, and embodied consciousness.

We explore:

• What is a "good man"?

• The limitations of traditional talk therapy and why embodiment is essential for lasting transformation

• Trauma, nervous system healing, and the wisdom of the body

• Steve's personal journey through alcoholism, recovery, and the 12-Step path; how a near-fatal car accident became the catalyst that transformed his life and purpose

• The difference between masculinity and femininity—and how these energies dance within all of us

• How Polarity practices can deepen connection

Steve's story is one of profound resilience and devotion to healing. After a life-altering accident in 2009 forced him to rebuild both his body and identity, he found his way into therapy, men's work, and embodied practices that would ultimately become his life's calling. Over the past decade, he has supported more than 1,000 individuals in healing emotional pain, reclaiming freedom, and living with greater purpose.Drawing from his clinical background and extensive training in body-based healing modalities including EMDR, Internal Family Systems, and Deb Dana's work with Polyvagal Theory, Steve offers a grounded and compassionate perspective on what it takes to heal, grow, and cultivate meaningful relationships.

Whether you're a man seeking a deeper connection to yourself, a woman wanting to better understand the men in your life, or someone curious about embodiment, polarity, and conscious relating, this episode offers practical wisdom and heartfelt insights for the journey.

Tune in for a conversation about healing, courage, intimacy, and what becomes possible when we learn to lead from the heart. ❤️

There’s a moment on the path of Tantra when something inside you recognizes itself — not as a concept, but as a deep remembering. In this intimate conversation, I sit down with Priestess Mentor and Pleasure Socialite Mayra Leen during my recent time in Austin to explore the landscapes of spiritual awakening, erotic embodiment, sacred intimacy, and the initiatory path that so many of us are being called toward. Together, we speak candidly about the medicine of ISTA, learning to trust the wisdom hidden within our triggers, and the profound feeling of “coming home” that can arise when we enter the world of Tantra and conscious relating. Mayra also shares the vision behind her offering, Reverie — a living field of devotion, sensuality, liberation, and feminine leadership. Designed as a sacred space for femme-bodied beings to deepen into their erotic aliveness, Reverie invites the masculine not as pursuers or performers, but as conscious witnesses: learning the art of presence, reverence, and the transformative power of the gaze. We explore how this work can begin to soften and rewire conditioned dynamics of extraction, allowing intimacy to become a space of attunement, reciprocity, and sacred witnessing. If you’ve ever felt curious about Tantra, embodiment, polarity, sacred sexuality, or the deeper spiritual dimensions of intimacy, this episode offers an honest and illuminating doorway into the work we live and share as practitioners and guides.

Learn more about Mayra and her work here: ⁠mayraleen.com⁠

In this paradigm-shifting episode of Universal Intimacy, I sit down with Tiffany Hurd — a Microdosing Advisor, Psychedelic Mentor, and former neuroscience-focused medical executive who now guides individuals into intentional relationships with plant medicine for healing, growth, and transformation. She is the partnership advisor for The Golden Rule, a femme-owned company providing microdosing solutions to more humans. Tiffany brings a rare bridge between science and soul — blending her background in neurology and the corporate medical world with over a decade of experience working with psychedelics and guiding hundreds of clients through microdosing journeys. Together, we open an honest, nuanced, and deeply embodied conversation around microdosing as a pathway for healing trauma, reconnecting to the body, and restoring intimacy with the nervous system. This episode explores:

And yes… a provocative but real conversation about why so many women — especially those in midlife, the “soccer moms” holding everything together — may be quietly craving deeper support, regulation, and reconnection to themselves. We speak to the woman who has spent decades caring for others… who feels disconnected from her body, her pleasure, her aliveness — and is ready for a new way. Microdosing, when approached intentionally and with proper guidance, isn’t about escaping life — it’s about meeting yourself more fully within it. As Tiffany shares, this work is about creating a safe, personalized framework that honors your nervous system, your life circumstances, and your capacity for transformation. What becomes possible when we feel safe enough in their bodies to truly feel?

Learn more about Tiffany at: https://tiffanyhurd.com/ and https://goldenrulemushrooms.com/ Use code: "josephine10" for 10% off your first order!⁠

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In Episode 19 of Universal Intimacy, I sit down with my dear friend, medicine keeper, and guide "Kate" for a heartfelt conversation about the power and potency of psychedelics in our healing journeys. Together, we explore the sacred landscape of plant medicines — including Ayahuasca, Iboga, and San Pedro — and the profound ways these ancient allies invite us into deeper connection with ourselves, each other, and the spiritual realms.

This episode dives into the importance of ceremony and community, and why healing so often unfolds more fully when we are witnessed in group spaces. Kate shares wisdom from her years of working with plant medicines, illuminating how collective ceremony can create containers where vulnerability, transformation, and integration become possible. We reflect on the idea that to be witnessed is to be healed, and how shared altered states can dissolve isolation and remind us of our belonging.

We also unpack the meaning of “dieta,” a traditional practice used in many Indigenous lineages to cultivate a respectful and reciprocal relationship with plant medicines. Through intentional preparation, discipline, and devotion, dieta becomes a pathway to deeper listening, spiritual attunement, and personal transformation.

A powerful thread throughout our conversation is the idea that psychedelics are inherently queer—not necessarily in terms of identity alone, but in their ability to dissolve rigid binaries, disrupt conditioned ways of perceiving reality, and open us to more fluid, expansive ways of relating to consciousness, identity, and the natural world.

Together we explore how expanded states of consciousness can reconnect us to spirit, awaken dormant parts of the psyche, and offer pathways for healing trauma, deepening intimacy, and reclaiming wholeness. Ultimately, this episode is an invitation to remember that healing is rarely a solitary path; it is something that unfolds in relationship, ritual, and community.

Through stories, insights, and reflections, "Kate" and I explore how sacred medicines can guide us toward deeper presence, authenticity, and universal intimacy. 🌿✨

In this episode of Universal Intimacy host Josephine Lauer sits down with Ashley Summers and Nicole Sonnefeldt, co-founders of the upcoming women’s empowerment retreat UNLEASHED: https://www.thisisunleashed.com/ taking place in Chicago on February 21, 2026. Together we explore the deeply personal journeys that led Ashley and Nicole to create a trauma-informed, sex-positive space for women to reconnect with their fullest selves. Ashley shares her evolution as a photographer, creative, and mother, weaving together her background in therapeutic recreation and her path from religious shame to embodied self-expression. She reflects on how boudoir photography became a powerful tool for trust, vulnerability, and helping others feel truly seen—what she calls her “ultimate kink.” Nicole brings her perspective as a coach, former therapist, and sex-positive activist. With a background in counseling psychology and trauma-informed modalities, she opens up about her experiences with polyamory, pansexuality, and the challenges of navigating professional boundaries while honoring her own sexual authenticity. Her transition from therapist to coach allowed her to work more freely with individuals, couples, and polycules seeking expanded ways of relating. The conversation culminates in the vision behind UNLEASHED: a retreat designed to help women unlearn shame, soften into connection, and experience open-hearted community. UNLEASHED offers a somatic, trauma-informed flow—combining movement, reflection, and intimate workshops—to support deep feminine connection, surrender, and self-acceptance. This episode is an honest, expansive dialogue about 3 women's journey thru sexuality, creativity, healing, and what becomes possible when women are supported in showing up as their whole selves. We cover topics including, The Power of Community, Competition vs. Support: Women are taught to be in competition with each other, making it hard to unlearn that conditioning. The "new paradigm" is to celebrate and cheer on other beautiful, sexy women. Trauma and Touch: It is sad that, due to trauma, the majority of women shut down and do not feel safe to receive touch, even when given structured systems to feel safe, and Co-Regulation. Register for the retreat at: https://www.thisisunleashed.com/ Use code "PODCAST" for an 11% discount off ticket price

Lana Shay is a lifelong holistic living advocate, medicine woman, psychonaut, and practitioner of the Tantric arts whose journey weaves together sensuality, spirituality, and deep healing. With a background spanning integrated holistic medicine and psychedelic-assisted therapies, Lana brings a bold and embodied perspective shaped by transformation, devotion, and lived experience. In this episode, Lana shares her path of guiding others toward holistic living through alternative healing, erotic arts, plant medicines, entheogens, and a profound connection to Source. Her unique lens explores what it means to be deeply seen, nourished, and loved—blending sex, food, and healing into a sacred, intentional way of life. She also introduces The Pure Way, her philosophy and company born from the fusion of ancient wisdom, modern wellness, and personal integrity. At its core, The Pure Way is about harmony: sensuality and spirituality, discipline and pleasure, self-awareness and sacred relationship—offering a pathway to embodied wholeness and conscious living. You can her weekly writings and audio transmissions on Substack: https://substack.com/@lanashay