Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you work, your dream life still feels out of reach? Like year after year, you set big goals but end up in the same place? On this special episode of Unknown and Talented, I’m reflecting on my 34th birthday and the lessons I’ve learned about chasing goals, building habits, and shifting your mindset.

What I’ve realized is that success isn’t about the size of your goals—it’s about the mindset you carry while pursuing them. In this episode, I break down four powerful mindset shifts that will change the way you approach your goals, your habits, and even the way you see yourself. From learning how to set smaller, more achievable milestones, to breaking free from fear and feelings, to sacrificing comfort for your calling—you’ll discover practical shifts that can help you move closer to the life you’ve always dreamed of.

Whether you’re building a business, creating content, or simply trying to grow as a person, this conversation is packed with motivation, real-life stories, and encouragement to keep going.

You’ve heard the phrase “time is money” your whole life—but what if that mindset is the very thing holding you back?

In this episode, Jelan dives deep into the real value of your time and breaks down why trading hours for dollars will never lead to financial freedom. From childhood lessons to credit card traps in college, Jelan unpacks the generational beliefs and school system gaps that shape our financial habits.

You’ll learn:

• Why most of us were never taught real financial literacy
• The powerful lessons from Rich Dad Poor Dad and The Automatic Millionaire
• How to stop wasting your money on quick fixes and start building wealth with intention
• The difference between a “TV dinner” life and a “crock pot” future (it’ll make sense—trust us)
• Why delayed gratification is the secret weapon to long-term success
• How to use your job as a stepping stone, not a lifelong trap
• Practical steps to save, invest, and create income streams—even if you're just getting by

Jelan also drops actionable tips for:

• Reviewing your bank statements to find hidden money
• Building passive income through affiliate links and content creation
• Leveraging thrift stores for self-education
• Automating your savings (yes, set it and forget it)

Whether you’re stuck in a 9-to-5 or just trying to break out of paycheck-to-paycheck living, this episode will challenge the way you think about time, money, and what true wealth actually means.

📌 Key Takeaway:

Stop thinking your only value is in your labor. Start using your money, time, and talents to build something bigger. Money is unlimited—your time isn’t.

Too often we cling to relationships and environments that feel comfortable but no longer serve our growth. Jelan breaks down why separating from the crowd isn’t punishment—it’s preparation. Whether you’re chasing big goals, building faith, or simply trying to level up, that lonely season you’re afraid of might be exactly what you need.

🔑 In This Episode, Jelan Covers:

-Why you need to stop depending on others for motivation

-The hidden growth in seasons of isolation

-How your environment reflects your current self, not your future potential

-The difference between being buried and being planted

-Why not everyone from your past can come with you to your next level

-How to audit your circle and identify who’s pushing you vs. draining you

-Building faith and using podcasts, books, and spiritual practice to thrive alone

-How to prepare for the community you do want by becoming the person that community needs

-Why you must be your own biggest cheerleader while no one else is clapping

💬 Key Quote:

"Sometimes when you’re in a dark place, you think you’ve been buried, but you’ve actually been planted."

🛠️ Practical Takeaways:

-Journal your gratitude and small wins every day

-Identify and limit time with people who drain your energy

-Embrace spiritual practices like prayer and scripture reading to stay grounded

-Be okay being alone for a season so you can grow into who you’re meant to be

-Start listening to content that pours into your mindset and growth

📌 Final Message:

Don’t settle for a comfortable life that’s killing your dreams. You may be in the dirt now, but you’re growing. You’re not alone—God is with you, and so is this community. Be your own cheerleader until the world catches up.

If you’re tired of feeling stuck, behind, or like life is passing you by, this episode is for you. From waking up earlier to reclaim your time, to building a relationship with God, to prioritizing your physical health and mindset — I’m breaking it all down with real examples, hard truths, and simple steps you can apply immediately.

Whether you want to grow spiritually, mentally, or financially, this episode gives you a blueprint to take action, not just feel motivated.

In this episode, we dive deep into the mindset and habits that keep us stuck in a cycle of procrastination. Whether you're waiting for the "perfect time," overwhelmed by fear, or just stuck in planning mode. It's time to break free.

✅ You'll learn:

Why procrastination is more than just laziness

The hidden fears holding you back

How to take imperfect action and build momentum

Practical steps to stop overthinking and start doing

How to create a lifestyle built on purpose, not pressure

This isn’t about motivation that fades—this is about building discipline and designing a life you’re proud of.

Most people think creating content is all about strategy—but it really starts with mindset. In this episode, I talk about the mindset shift that changed everything for me as a 9-to-5 worker trying to build a content-driven life. I used to think small, doubt myself, and overthink every post… until I realized the way I thought was holding me back more than any algorithm.

If you're tired of playing it safe, feeling stuck at your job, and wondering if you have what it takes to grow online—this video is for you. I’ll break down the exact thought pattern that helped me start showing up confidently, post consistently, and create content that actually connects.

✅ For creators working 9–5

✅ For people overthinking their content

✅ For anyone who wants to stop playing small

You’re 90 days away from a completely different life. If you’re willing to commit.

In this episode I break down exactly how to change your life in just 3 months. Whether you’re stuck in a rut, tired of procrastinating, or just ready to level up, this is your roadmap to transformation.

I’ll walk you through the mindset shifts, daily habits, and hard truths you need to hear to get real results fast. This isn’t a magic trick. It’s real, practical advice that’s worked for me and can work for you.

Are you stuck in your head, replaying the same thoughts over and over again? Overthinking can destroy your confidence, delay your goals, and keep you from living fully. In this video, I break down why we overthink, how it quietly kills our progress, and most importantly—how to stop it.

If you're tired of second-guessing every move and ready to take back control of your thoughts, this video is for you. I’ll share 3 practical strategies that you can start using today to silence the noise and take bold action with clarity and confidence.

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In this episode of Unknown and Talented, we’re diving into why focusing on yourself isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. Life gets loud with distractions, opinions, and pressure to keep up with everyone else. But when you take the time to turn inward and prioritize your own growth, everything changes. I’ll break down four key reasons why locking in on you is the most powerful move you can make right now. Whether you're building something big or just trying to find your peace, this conversation is your reminder: your journey deserves your full attention.

In this video, I'll share the things I did to stop wasting my evenings after work, using time blocking to maximize productivity and relaxation.

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