Love & Learn

Unlearning the Past and the Sunk Cost Fallacy | ✨ A Course in Miracles


Listen Later

"I see nothing as it is now." – A Course in Miracles Workbook, Lesson 9

What if our perceptions are clouded not just by the past but by assumptions and biases that prevent us from truly seeing the present?


In this episode of Love & Learn, we explore Lesson 9 from A Course in Miracles Workbook, which reminds us that our minds rarely see things as they truly are. Instead, we project our past experiences and assumptions onto the present, distorting our ability to engage with reality. By practicing this lesson, we begin to release these filters and open ourselves to a clearer and more authentic perspective.

Key Insights on Lesson 9:

  1. The Challenge of Unlearning: This lesson emphasizes that confusion and resistance are natural as we begin to undo our false perceptions. Understanding isn’t required at this stage—consistent practice is. Each small step helps clear away the mental clutter that obscures our ability to truly see.

  2. Perception Is Distorted by Assumptions: Our perceptions are shaped by judgments, memories, and biases, preventing us from seeing the present moment clearly. By acknowledging that we “see nothing as it is now,” we create space to recognize and release the filters that distort our view of reality.

  3. The Power of Honest Practice: The exercise for this lesson invites us to look at familiar objects and practice the mantra: “I see nothing as it is now.” This practice isn’t about doubting what’s in front of us but becoming aware of how our thoughts and assumptions influence what we see. Honest, non-judgmental application of this idea helps us loosen these mental projections.


Overcoming the Sunk Cost Fallacy

This lesson ties beautifully to the concept of the "sunk cost fallacy," which is the tendency to hold onto past investments of time, energy, or resources, even when moving forward would be more beneficial. Just as this lesson encourages us to see the present without the weight of past filters, overcoming the sunk cost fallacy invites us to release attachment to past efforts and focus on the opportunities that lie ahead.

Reflection for the Week

Where in your life are you letting past investments—of time, energy, or beliefs—hold you back from moving forward? How can you release these attachments to see your present reality more clearly and make choices that align with your true self?

Remember: Our perceptions are often distorted by the past, but through honest and consistent practice, we can begin to see the world—and ourselves—with greater clarity and love.

Tune in and join us as we uncover how this practice can help us create a more peaceful, present-centered life!

CONNECT WITH JESSICA FLINT

  • Website
  • Instagram
...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Love & LearnBy Jessica Flint

  • 4.8
  • 4.8
  • 4.8
  • 4.8
  • 4.8

4.8

518 ratings


More shows like Love & Learn

View all
Food Psych Podcast with Christy Harrison by Christy Harrison, MPH, RD, CEDS

Food Psych Podcast with Christy Harrison

3,064 Listeners

The Anxiety Coaches Podcast by Gina Ryan

The Anxiety Coaches Podcast

1,821 Listeners

Your Anxiety Toolkit - Anxiety & OCD Strategies for Everyday by Kimberley Quinlan, LMFT

Your Anxiety Toolkit - Anxiety & OCD Strategies for Everyday

797 Listeners

The SelfWork Podcast by Margaret Robinson Rutherford PhD

The SelfWork Podcast

1,197 Listeners

Brain over Binge Podcast by Kathryn Hansen

Brain over Binge Podcast

702 Listeners

UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone by Kara Loewentheil

UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

5,076 Listeners

The Positive Mindset Podcast by Henry Lawrence

The Positive Mindset Podcast

570 Listeners

The Stop Binge Eating Podcast by Kirstin Sarfde

The Stop Binge Eating Podcast

506 Listeners

The Healing Trauma Podcast by Monique Koven

The Healing Trauma Podcast

425 Listeners

On Purpose with Jay Shetty by iHeartPodcasts

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

27,096 Listeners

The Eating Disorder Therapist by HARRIET FREW

The Eating Disorder Therapist

89 Listeners

Seems Like Diet Culture by Mallory Page, RD

Seems Like Diet Culture

135 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

20,795 Listeners

Regulate & Rewire: An Anxiety & Depression Podcast by Amanda Armstrong

Regulate & Rewire: An Anxiety & Depression Podcast

328 Listeners

Rethinking Wellness by Christy Harrison, MPH, RD, CEDS

Rethinking Wellness

219 Listeners