Tess grew up learning how to be desirable before she ever learned how to feel desire. In this episode, we talk about what happens when you begin to heal, peel back the layers of performance, and ask: Who taught me what attraction is supposed to look like and do I even agree? From early conformity to quiet awakenings, Tess shares her story of unlearning the "good girl" script, reclaiming her sexuality, and choosing curiosity over shame. This episode is a soft but powerful invitation to rethink what we want, and why.