UnLined Lip Revelations

In this episode, Quila discusses her life as an empath.  She discusses how being an empath can sometimes lead to problematic behavior and what she does to cope with the constant ability to take on the feelings and emotions of others.  

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/emotional-freedom/201602/10-traits-empathic-people-share

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-empaths-survival-guide/202006/7-ways-empaths-can-heal-trauma-and-ptsd

https://www.healthline.com/health/what-is-an-empath

Tune in this Tuesday, June 15th for thr new episode, "So You Think You're An Empath?" Episode airs at 10am!!!

In the season three premiere, Quila Boyd gives a brief explanation on why she has been MIA and what listeners can expect to hear this season on Unlined Lip Revelations!

SEASON THREE PREMIERS 06.08.2021!

In this episode, Quila discuses personal thoughts and feelings about being a single black woman in today's society.  This episode also goes into debunking some of the myths about black marriages.

"The Top 4 Myths About Black Marriage"
https://www.thoughtco.com/the-top-myths-about-black-marriage-2834526

"Why One Sociologist Says It's Time for Black Women to Date White Men"
https://news.wttw.com/2019/04/17/sociologist-cheryl-judice-interracial-relationships

"Statistics Convinced Me I'd Never Get Married. They Were Wrong" https://www.shondaland.com/live/family/a28848333/black-women-love-marriage/

https://www.amazon.com/Tears-We-Cannot-Stop-America/dp/1250135990
https://www.amazon.com/White-Fragility-People-About-Racism/dp/0807047414
https://libjournal.uncg.edu/ijcp/article/viewFile/249/116
https://www.insidehighered.com/advice/2018/01/12/checklist-determine-if-you-are-supporting-white-supremacy-opinion

Who comes first in a man's life?  Should it be the daughter/son? The mom? Wife?  Baby mama?! This episode explores the priority of spouses and Quila Boyd answers the question based on her perspective while using interesting articles to support her clai

Links to Articles used in this episode.
https://www.fatherly.com/love-money/why-you-should-prioritize-marriage-over-kids/
https://www.familytoday.com/parenting/4-key-reasons-why-it-matters-to-put-your-spouse-before-your-children/

Last week, "rapper Boosie Badazz stirred up controversy when he went on Instagram Live and offered his views on raising children. In a disturbing display of homophobia, misogyny, and all-around sh*tty parenting, Boosie explained how he prepares his sons and nephews for manhood"(Hill, 2020).  Quila gives her response to what Mr. Badazz(*strong eyeroll*) had to say.

Click the links to read the cited articles. 
https://thegrio.com/2020/05/15/boosie-badazz-son-instagram/

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/psychoanalysis-30/201101/sexually-abused-boys-and-the-men-they-become

UnLined Lip Revelations is moving to a new day and time!  Check out new episodes on Tuesdays at 5pm starting May 19th!!!

Therapist Darlene Lancer defines gaslighting as a malicious and hidden form of mental and emotional abuse, designed to plant seeds of self-doubt and alter your perception of reality. Like all abuse, it's based on the need for power, control, or concealment. In this episode, Quila Boyd discusses her experiences with gaslighters as well as giving tips to handle these types of people. To read more of the Darlene Lancer's article click the following link. 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/here-there-and-everywhere/201701/are-gaslighters-aware-what-they-do