Grief doesn’t move in a straight line. Some days it’s quiet, other days it sits heavy on your chest. In this episode of UnpRAWvoked, I talk about living with grief — the kind that doesn’t really end — and how prayer has been the one thing carrying me through this never ending season.

Between reflection at home, a close call that made me pause, and moments that felt like answered prayers, this is an honest conversation about faith, patience, and finding strength when life feels overwhelming.

If you’ve ever felt like grief comes in waves, this one is for you.

Consent is not silence.

Consent is not pressure.

Consent is not “we were already doing it.”

In this episode, we confront what consensual sex really looks like in 2026 — and why recording without clear permission shifts intimacy into control.

Today’s conversation is about grief—not as a single moment, but as something that lives with us, shifts with time, and shows up differently for each of us.

I’ve spoken about grief before, and I’m speaking about it again now—from a different place, and with different understanding. This episode is part of a series of one-on-one conversations within my Kahigah family, creating space for honesty, memory, and reflection.

I’m joined today by a man whose lived experience carries years, family, and perspective. This is not a conversation about having the right words—just about telling the truth, gently.

Thank you for being here with me. UnpRAWvoked.

Karigoh Wangari Gateere

Cheers to 2026. No applause, just facts!

I was born ready!

Grief shows up quietly during the holidays.

It sits in the empty chair, echoes in old songs, and tugs at memories you thought had settled.

Joy and sorrow blend, and you learn — again — that grief doesn’t end.

It just learns to live beside you...

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You never really understand grief until you experience it.

And no one ever teaches us that our loved ones, friends, and relatives are also grieving — just like we are.

Grief isn’t yours alone, it’s something even our friends feel too.

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