What does romantic love have to do with your creative career? More than you think.

In this episode I sit down with Pepper Maria — Dutch writer, content creator, and author-in-progress — to talk about something that doesn’t come up enough in conversations about creativity: the stories we inherit about love, and how quietly they shape what we dare to make.

We get into what it really means to decenter romantic love (and no, it’s not about rejecting it), why insecure attachment might be the actual thing standing between you and your creative potential, and what Pepper calls “depatriarchalizing your mind” — unlearning the conditioning that keeps you small, waiting, and living through someone else’s script.

This one went places I didn’t expect. I hope it does the same for you.

Find Pepper Maria: TikTok · Instagram · What About Love? on Substack

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