Hi, I'm the Problem, It's Me... In today’s episode, we have a first: our girl admits she is the problem! Navigating a friendship with someone who's confessed their feelings can be tough—especially when you’ve led them on and then moved on to a new man. In another story, our writer has been dreaming about an ex for two years... but here’s the catch: she’s engaged.

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Happy Monday, UA Fam!! Today, we're going back to the basics with some juicy stories and relationship drama. In our first story, our girl is navigating a FWB situation that’s starting to spark some real feelings... but her guy isn’t on the same page. Then, we dive into setting boundaries around texting – what’s okay and what’s not, like when another girl is sending inappropriate photos to your partner...

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This week’s stories are a mess, and we’re here for it! In our first story, we dive into a flirty workplace romance, at least, that’s what she thought until she discovered he had a girlfriend the whole time! In our second story, our writer confesses to hooking up with her best friend's ex. But now that feelings have developed, how does she come clean without risking their friendship?

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In today's episode, we dive into the tough reality of being in a relationship with someone who resorts to name-calling and psychological manipulation. To our sweet writer, you deserve so much more than this. With some tough love and big sis advice, we're talking about how to move forward with strength and self-love.

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Ghosting, crushes, and bestie drama – we’re back and it’s messier than ever, fam! In today’s episode, we’ve got some messy stories. In one story, our girl’s bestie/roommate hooked up with her crush... so how do they move past this? How do they navigate their friendship, let alone live together? And in another story, one of our listeners’ boyfriends ghosted her during the holidays... oh, and they also live together. Trust us, this one's a rollercoaster!

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Happy Monday, UA Fam! In today’s episode, we’re diving into the juicy details of the Bachelor breakup everyone is talking about! We’re unpacking what went down, how it played out in the public eye, and why it’s important not to let a messy breakup set unhealthy patterns in your own relationships. Cozy up, because we’re serving up some real talk on love, growth, and keeping things positive!

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Happy Valentine's week, cuties! This year, we decided to read your heartwarming and positive meet-cute stories. We love love and want to share that joy with all of you. Wishing you a day full of love and happiness!

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What do you do when you can’t stand your best friend’s new boyfriend? He’s rude, obnoxious, and seems to be ruining the vibe yet your friend is totally smitten. In this episode, we’re diving into this tricky situation of how to handle, when you don’t like your bestie’s partner. At the end of the day we want you to protect your friendship without letting your friend date someone who’s clearly not right for her. Sometimes, holding your tongue is harder than it seems. 

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In today’s episode, we dive into some serious mamma drama! Our writer is facing major red flags from her boyfriend's mom, and it's starting to affect their relationship. We're diving into how she should approach this sticky situation.

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It's not a Monday without a new UA episode! A huge thank you to everyone who's reached out or contributed to the California wildfire relief efforts, your support means the world. On today's episode, we're diving into the art of crushes! We’re sharing practical tips on how to flirt, how to make a move, and how to talk to that cute new guy in your friend group!

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