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10x Your Energy This Week by Dropping One Thing | Ep. 2

What if you had 10x the energy every week without adding a single thing to your plate? 📖 This episode is pulled straight from Chapter 6 of Annette’s #1 bestselling book, Unstoppable Babe™.  In this episode, Annette shows you how to stop managing what people think of you. That habit is the hidden engine behind people pleasing, perfectionism, and playing small. Drop it, and you get your energy, confidence, and leadership back!

In this episode:

• Where your energy is actually going: the subtle ways you manage other people’s opinions without realizing it.
• The childhood moment that taught her “perfect = safe” and why that was never true.
• Perfectionism is simply the fear of being seen. It’s a learned safety habit, not who you are.
• The visibility shift: give “what if they love it?” the same airtime as “what if I fail?”
• Her first time on the mic: shaking hands, a dry mouth, one joke, and pushing play anyway.
• Effort vs. results: your effort is 100% yours, and their results are 100% theirs.
• The 5-word phrase that made her career take off: Not my circus, not my monkeys.

Key takeaways:

• You were born belonging. Being worthy is your birthright, not something you earn.
• Being bad at the beginning is the price of entry. Every great performer pushed play before she was ready.
• Calm authority comes from letting people own their results, in leadership, parenting, and marriage.
• How you show up is 100% your responsibility. How they take it is 0%.

Your challenge this week:

1. Run a tally audit. Make a mark every time you think about what someone thinks of you.
2. When you catch yourself managing, whisper: not my circus, not my monkeys.
3. Watch how much energy you get back.

You’re built for this. Bet on yourself babe 🖤

Want the full playbook?
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What This Episode Is About

You didn't inherit your limits, you inherited a story, and you can hand it back. In this first episode, Annette breaks down the exact moment her life changed (it wasn't slow, it was one decision) and the belief system she built afterward that turned "bad knees" into marathons, a half Iron Man, and a top-tier sponsored athlete career.

Key Points

1. Life doesn't change slowly! It changes in a moment of decision.
    Annette traces her own turning point back to a single session in instructor training, where she decided who she wanted to be before she had any proof she could become it. Once the decision was made, her life reorganized around it — not gradually, but immediately.
2. Belief is chosen. It's never inherited.
    Growing up, Annette was told her family "has bad knees," repeated so often it started to sound like fact. In college, she made a different choice: I have great knees. That single decision became the foundation for marathons, a half Iron Man, and the athletic career she has today. The lesson: beliefs aren't facts, they're just thoughts repeated enough times to feel true, and you get to choose which ones you keep.
3. You don't need permission. You need a decision.
    Annette unpacks how much energy goes into asking everyone else's opinion before acting. The shift happens when you stop outsourcing that permission and start deciding on your own terms. Life reorganizes around a decision, not around a poll.
4. Faith first, then the result.
    Belief has to come BEFORE the proof shows up, not after. Waiting for evidence before you believe is doing it backwards, and it makes everything take longer and feel harder. Decide first. Let the evidence catch up.
5. Confidence is built, not given.
    The "receipts" — the body, the business, the relationships — are the evidence of a belief you held before anyone else could see it. That kind of confidence can't be bought or complimented into existence. It's earned, one decided belief at a time.

Quotable Lines

"Beliefs are never facts. They're just simply beliefs."
 "You become the proof, and then the evidence shows up."
 "Confidence isn't bought. It's earned."
 "Life doesn't actually change slowly. It changes in a moment of decision."
 "I have great knees, and it's because I simply chose what belief I wanted to choose."

For Listeners

Ask yourself: what's the "bad knees" story in your life, the one you've repeated so often it sounds like fact? You get to decide right now that you're done carrying it, and delete it forever.