UR 113: The Heart of Man — John Lynch

Author John Lynch is back on the show to discuss the upcoming movie, The Heart of Man, his new book, The Cure & Parents, and the messy work of forgiveness. John courageously and vulnerably shares his story of abuse in the film and again in today’s interview and speaks to the debilitating shame that followed as he spent years covering up his secret. Listen as he shares the wonderful freedom that followed when he finally revealed his secret and experienced unconditional love instead of the rejection he anticipated. Here are a few powerful quotes from this episode: “Accountability is a great word for a job description, but a terrible word for the human heart. It becomes a function of law that leads to hiding.” “Out of the stunning reality of God’s grace, we begin to sin less and love more. The power of the control cycle begins to fade.” “You can behave correctly from the wrong motive and God isn’t interested.” “I’m capable of absolutely anything except stealing rap music.” “Grace does not demand.” “If you are not willing to allow him to get out of the doghouse, you will never be loved by a man again, but by a little boy.” “Forgiveness is almost impossible when we stay focused on the horizontal relationship. Vertical forgiveness let’s us off the hook.” Learn more about The Heart of Man movie at http://www.theheartofmanmovie.com and John’s ministry, TrueFace, at http://www.trueface.org.