Get your notebooks out, your pens ready, and your ears open.  This week, with handmade parts and scruffy beards, Urban Laughter and JB  discuss a situation a listener is going through where she is trying to find herself in the middle of a bad sidechick situation (HE MADE HER PAY FOR AN ABORTION!!) that she is struggling to get out of and they pose a question about things that we learned while dating.  Urban Laughter speaks out about how she does not want to date a man that has kids and the challenges that can come from that.  THEEE fuck boy and THEEE fuck girl are real things and we discuss the importance of believing a person when they show you who they are.