Let’s talk about it:
The penis.
The prick.
The vajra.
Yes, we said vajra—and no, we’re not just being poetic.In this powerful episode of Tantra Talks, we’re flipping the entire script on what it means to be a man, to own a penis, and to awaken your vajra—a sacred, conscious tool of healing, transformation, and power.

This is the episode for every man (and every partner of a man) who’s ever wondered:"Is there more to sex than pounding and performing?
"Spoiler: Oh, absolutely.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why your penis isn’t just for pleasure—it’s a literal diamond scepter of wisdom (aka Vajra)
• How circumcision trauma numbs your sensitivity and blocks healing
• The cultural cost of disconnection from our genitals (and how to undo it)
• What it means to reclaim your sexual sovereignty as a man
• How conscious lingam massage can awaken sensitivity and dissolve trauma
• The difference between penetration and presence (and why the latter is way hotter)
• How to rewire your nervous system to feel more—not just “get off” faster
• The role of solo practice, emotional healing, and spiritual depth in becoming a mature lover

"It’s not just a penis. It’s your Vajra."The word Vajra means “diamond thunderbolt” in Tibetan Buddhism.

And according to traditional Tantra, your penis isn’t a weapon—it’s a wand of light.
A conduit of healing. A force of spiritual power. A sacred instrument of connection.

But here’s the thing:
You can’t use your Vajra for healing until you do your own healing.
That means slowing down, dissolving trauma, reclaiming sensitivity, and learning to feel again—from root to crown.

Pleasure, Healing, & Power—For Real

Dr. Chris shares his own journey of transformation—from numb, circumcised penis and porn-influenced pounding… to sensitive, emotionally present, heart-connected Vajra.This episode is honest, hilarious, and deeply reverent.

We talk circumcision trauma, somatic wounding, sexual sovereignty, and the sacred invitation of being a man who leads with presence—not performance.We also name what most don’t dare say:That the modern world has stripped men of their right to fully feel—
and it’s time to take it the f*ck back.