Valentine’s Day doesn’t cancel out a year of inconsistency. Flowers, gifts, and dinners aren’t substitutes for communication, effort, and accountability. In this episode, I talk about transactional love, uneven emotional labor, and why one holiday can’t fix what’s been missing all year. Love is built daily—not paid for once a year.

Valentine’s Day doesn’t cancel out a year of inconsistency. Flowers, gifts, and dinners aren’t substitutes for communication, effort, and accountability. In this episode, I talk about transactional love, uneven emotional labor, and why one holiday can’t fix what’s been missing all year. Love is built daily—not paid for once a year.

Valentine’s Day Ain’t a Payment Plan

Ever had a moment so real it made you laugh, cry, and rethink your whole life? That’s Soph, Say It With Your Chest.Hosted by Soph—a goofy, masculine-presenting Black lesbian woman with a sharp tongue and a soft heart—this podcast is a front-row seat to stories you’ve lived, feelings you’ve avoided, and laughs you didn’t see coming. From messy family dynamics and healing childhood wounds to studs with auntie walks and the chaos of queer love, Soph holds nothing back.She’s raw. She’s honest. She’s that friend who’ll hype you up, call you out, and hug you after. One episode might feel like a therapy session, and the next like a late-night group chat—but all of them come from the chest. Her whole chest.Hop in. Bring your seatbelt, your tissues, and maybe your favorite hoodie. It’s about to get loud, funny, and uncomfortably real.

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Ever had a moment so real it made you laugh, cry, and rethink your whole life? That’s Soph, Say It With Your Chest. Hosted by Soph—a goofy, masculine-presenting Black lesbian woman with a sharp tongue and a soft heart—this podcast is a front-row seat to stories you’ve lived, feelings you’ve avoided, and laughs you didn’t see coming. From messy family dynamics and healing childhood wounds to studs with auntie walks and the chaos of queer love, Soph holds nothing back. She’s raw. She’s honest. She’s that friend who’ll hype you up, call you out, and hug you after. One episode might feel like a therapy session, and the next like a late-night group chat—but all of them come from the chest. Her whole chest. Hop in. Bring your seatbelt, your tissues, and maybe your favorite hoodie. It’s about to get loud, funny, and uncomfortably real.

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