Yes equals go ahead and NO equals don't do it. We all at a point in time looked up to someone to affirm our feelings and thoughts and this is as a result of wanting to be relevant in the sight of another that we sometimes might feel giving others the right to help us discern rightly allows us achieve this goal which is why OSU proposes the Proverb: "Seated in the depth or deeper end of any human being at a point in time is the need to shine in the light of others" as we examine the right form of validtion there is that can birth a much more confident and well grounded us.