It has become a practice for a vibe in the relationship to drop at some point which I feel it’d wrong . What Is this saying when there is a crack in the wall the lizard leaks in. You going through a phase that might last for a while say it , you having a mood swing say it ! Communication is key in a relationship ! You don’t just drop a vibe without proper explanation! While dealing with your stuff be mindful of your partner’s feelings too. Don’t be selfish! Love isn’t a competition with rules !