It's time to get over being a victim of circumstances. If you stay in that mindset for too long, you need to realize that you will become a victim of your own circumstances. The people we blame sometimes for our misfortune don't know better or are trying the best they can. It's time to be kind and graceful about it and realize from these pain we grow and we become better. No one has the power over your life but you. You only decide what affects you and for how long. I pray God makes you see the light. Don't limit yourself. You are powerful and you have potential too.