Two Signs You're Setting Yourself Up to Fail.

The bigger the wedding, the bigger the divorce — and after doing it twice, I'm telling you why that's not a coincidence.

In this episode we get into it: the victim mindset excuse that's holding people back, a hard look at the politics nobody wants to say out loud, and then we go deep on marriage — why a massive wedding is often a red flag, how having kids changes attraction, and the money conversation every couple needs to have before saying "I do."

If you're engaged, married, or just trying to understand relationships and money better, this one's for you.

TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Victim mindset — stop making excuses

01:06 Politics, welfare & personal responsibility

02:55 Corporate America & the mindset trap

05:25 BLM, immigration & who really benefits

07:48 The bigger the wedding, the bigger the divorce

09:51 How kids change attraction (be honest)

12:16 What a "non-negotiable" wedding really tells you

14:37 Final word

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