Parents often ask me, “What’s your stance on videogames?”

Videogames can be a confusing topic for parents. Should I let my teen play them? What about the violent ones? How much should they be allowed to play?

Let me offer you a few tips.

First, take time to play a new game with your teen. If you see something in it that contradicts your family values, then switch it out for a different game.

Second, don’t let videogames consume his life. If he starts to spend more time in front of the console than anywhere else, give him some boundaries.

And finally, if you feel that videogames are affecting your teen’s motivation or changing his personality, then take more serious action.

Videogames can play a healthy role, as long as Mom and Dad pay attention!

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