At some point in life, most males encounter the reality of violence in their social worlds.  This process often includes deciding how violence will play a role in a male's sense of self.  In this episode, Anthony and Marshal share personal experiences of how the capacity for and expression of aggression and violence formed their sense of self from childhood into adulthood.  The impact of this process for them is also addressed, as well as the benefits and drawbacks of these experiences on their lives today.