In this Virtue we look at how shame is experienced in the body. Is it necessary for shame to be associated with more mundane aspects of our sexuality such as how often we have sex or how many partners we have? 
 
Can there be too much shame? Of course there can.
 
Resources:
<a href="https://books.google.com/books?hl=en&lr=&id=YZFEzl4SuU4C&oi=fnd&pg=PR7&dq=Kaufman+the+psychology&ots=snaJaf8NBu&sig=juPX9ESbJ6COVfq5UtWd3Qu8uE4#v=onepage&q&f=false" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">The Psychology of Shame by Gershon Kaufman</a>
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Science-Shame-Its-Treatment/dp/1624910742/ref=asc_df_1624910742/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312610812881&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=16493863137721954541&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9002278&hvtargid=pla-490791365406&psc=1&mcid=0d76f6d6b8de32018324982083aa0acb&tag=&ref=&adgrpid=61194519294&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvadid=312610812881&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=16493863137721954541&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9002278&hvtargid=pla-490791365406&gclid=CjwKCAiA29auBhBxEiwAnKcSqnMpiVsCJTCJaE2ZTdvk9b8V0PPPZDiyvt-j4rwdDJpWs3N5NhqyOxoCCeoQAvD_BwE" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">The Science of Shame by Gerald Fishkin</a>
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Science-Shame-Its-Treatment/dp/1624910742/ref=asc_df_1624910742/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312610812881&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=16493863137721954541&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9002278&hvtargid=pla-490791365406&psc=1&mcid=0d76f6d6b8de32018324982083aa0acb&tag=&ref=&adgrpid=61194519294&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvadid=312610812881&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=16493863137721954541&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9002278&hvtargid=pla-490791365406&gclid=CjwKCAiA29auBhBxEiwAnKcSqnMpiVsCJTCJaE2ZTdvk9b8V0PPPZDiyvt-j4rwdDJpWs3N5NhqyOxoCCeoQAvD_BwE" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">David Buss on Huberman Lab</a>
<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4291828/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Understanding the role of shame in female hypersexual disorders</a>

In this Virtue we look at how shame is experienced in the body. Is it necessary for shame to be associated with more mundane aspects of our sexuality such as how often we have sex or how many partners we have? Can there be too much shame? Of course there can. Resources: The Psychology of Shame by Gershon Kaufman The Science of Shame by Gerald Fishkin David Buss on Huberman Lab Understanding the role of shame in female hypersexual disorders

In this Virtue we look at how shame is experienced in the body. Is it necessary for shame to be associated with more mundane aspects of our sexuality such as how often we have sex or how many partners we have? 
 
Can there be too much shame? Of course there can.
 
Resources:
<a href="https://books.google.com/books?hl=en&amp;lr=&amp;id=YZFEzl4SuU4C&amp;oi=fnd&amp;pg=PR7&amp;dq=Kaufman+the+psychology&amp;ots=snaJaf8NBu&amp;sig=juPX9ESbJ6COVfq5UtWd3Qu8uE4#v=onepage&amp;q&amp;f=false" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Psychology of Shame by Gershon Kaufman</a>
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Science-Shame-Its-Treatment/dp/1624910742/ref=asc_df_1624910742/?tag=hyprod-20&amp;linkCode=df0&amp;hvadid=312610812881&amp;hvpos=&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvrand=16493863137721954541&amp;hvpone=&amp;hvptwo=&amp;hvqmt=&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvdvcmdl=&amp;hvlocint=&amp;hvlocphy=9002278&amp;hvtargid=pla-490791365406&amp;psc=1&amp;mcid=0d76f6d6b8de32018324982083aa0acb&amp;tag=&amp;ref=&amp;adgrpid=61194519294&amp;hvpone=&amp;hvptwo=&amp;hvadid=312610812881&amp;hvpos=&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvrand=16493863137721954541&amp;hvqmt=&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvdvcmdl=&amp;hvlocint=&amp;hvlocphy=9002278&amp;hvtargid=pla-490791365406&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiA29auBhBxEiwAnKcSqnMpiVsCJTCJaE2ZTdvk9b8V0PPPZDiyvt-j4rwdDJpWs3N5NhqyOxoCCeoQAvD_BwE" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Science of Shame by Gerald Fishkin</a>
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Science-Shame-Its-Treatment/dp/1624910742/ref=asc_df_1624910742/?tag=hyprod-20&amp;linkCode=df0&amp;hvadid=312610812881&amp;hvpos=&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvrand=16493863137721954541&amp;hvpone=&amp;hvptwo=&amp;hvqmt=&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvdvcmdl=&amp;hvlocint=&amp;hvlocphy=9002278&amp;hvtargid=pla-490791365406&amp;psc=1&amp;mcid=0d76f6d6b8de32018324982083aa0acb&amp;tag=&amp;ref=&amp;adgrpid=61194519294&amp;hvpone=&amp;hvptwo=&amp;hvadid=312610812881&amp;hvpos=&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvrand=16493863137721954541&amp;hvqmt=&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvdvcmdl=&amp;hvlocint=&amp;hvlocphy=9002278&amp;hvtargid=pla-490791365406&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiA29auBhBxEiwAnKcSqnMpiVsCJTCJaE2ZTdvk9b8V0PPPZDiyvt-j4rwdDJpWs3N5NhqyOxoCCeoQAvD_BwE" rel="noopener noreferrer">David Buss on Huberman Lab</a>
<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4291828/" rel="noopener noreferrer">Understanding the role of shame in female hypersexual disorders</a>

Virtue 10: Shame

Salo &amp; Virtue is a space of safe surrender. With your host Salo, we explore sexuality through the lenses of storytelling, psychology and culture. We revere our fantasies and our shames equally so that we can feel less alone in our desires.

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