Dating with boundaries is important because let’s be real… "step forward if you grew up with your father in the household, step forward if your father married your mother, step forward if you’ve always had a good relationship with your father.”
If you’re not still at the back, YOU ARE THE MINORITY.
Though this issue is not solely women’s fault, let’s do what WE can to solve it.
We cannot continue to give our time to men that don’t even deserve eye contact from us…
We have to understand HOW and WHO to date so we can start changing the narrative…
SO that Father’s Day can be celebrated in the same way that Mother’s Day is celebrated…
SO that we can start normalizing 2 parent households in the Black community.
We make these men boyfriends, fiancé ‘s husbands, baby daddies, for what?
We cannot continue to give these men these grandiose titles/responsibilities if they are not EXCELLING!
There is not a lack of good men out there. We simply have to be more strategic about Choosing.
This is just part 1, come listen!