Summary: Reconstruction quietly cuts the supply lines that fed other people's fragments. They feel the withdrawal before they understand what happened, and most will attack rather than reflect. Defence is the trap. Silence and continued coherence are the work. You won't be thanked. That's the cost of entry.Key Takeaways:Most relational systems run on distortion feeding distortion. When your side quiets, the other side experiences withdrawal.The labels — narcissist, selfish, cold, cruel, difficult — are diagnostic of the speaker, not of you.Defence feeds the attack. Silence starves it. Your coherence is the refutation; you don't need to argue it.The reward isn't their recognition. The reward is no longer leaving your own life to manage theirs.Pull Quote: "Defence feeds the attack. Silence starves it."
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