Vutomi Baloyi Talks

People will always talk whether you do good or bad.

"Your enemy's enemy is your friend." They say. Don't be fooled and fall into that trap. Nothing is exciting about forming relationships based on someone.

Hard work is needed for survival. Manifesting requires work too. Don't waste time thinking you can achieve things without putting in the work. PUT IN THE WORK!

There are a lot of people who are in toxic relationship but due to having normalized toxicity they fail to walk away.

There is nothing damaging than allowing negativity to consume one. Negativity and its effects are not talked about mostly hence many people do not know the power of negativity over one's life and mind.

There are different types of friendships. From my observations and past experiences, there are more bad types of friendships than good types of friendships. Associate yourself with people on the same mission as yours. Have good friendships that will last a lifetime.

Insecurities don't exist, we create them. Avoid negative thinking and letting what people say affect you as it leads to one having insecurities, most of the time. Imperfection = I'm perfection.

Don't get yourself into a polygamous relationship because you feel like you will never love a person as much as you love your current partner. Get into a polygamous relationship because you know what is in for you and you are emotionally and financially stable and ready. Know your worth and value.

Lack of support makes people do things they not proud of. It makes one feel like what he/she is doing is not good enough or he/she is not good enough. Lack of support shouldn't make one start caring about what people think and say. Supporting ourselves is always the best thing to do. In all that we do, we need support. But that shouldn't make us lose out on certain things.

The healing process doesn't mean that we will fully heal from past traumatic experiences, but it actually makes us know how to deal with things that trigger past traumatic experiences. The healing process is hard and long, it needs a person who is patient.