Waking Up to Narcissism

Waking Up to Narcissism

By Tony Overbay LMFTEducationSelf-Improvement
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  • Waking Up to Narcissism

    Is a podcast hosted by Tony Overbay, LMFT, host of the award-winning Virtual Couch podcast, dedicated to helping individuals recognize and navigate narcissistic traits and tendencies in their relationships and within themselves. With a focus on emotional immaturity versus narcissism, Tony provides tools and guidance for personal growth and managing relationships with narcissistic or emotionally immature individuals, even if that individual is you!

    46 min
  • Understanding the Impact of Narcissistic and Emotionally Immature Parents

    Tony Overbay, LMFT, discusses the impact of narcissistic or emotionally immature parents on their children. Drawing from a personal letter sent in by a listener, as well as clinical cases and research, Tony explores the hallmarks of narcissistic and emotionally immature parenting and how these behaviors shape children’s emotional development and future relationships. This episode emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and adjustment in parenting to break harmful patterns and create secure attachments.

    00:00 Introduction and Welcome

    00:10 Understanding Narcissistic and Emotionally Immature Parents

    00:27 Promoting the Host’s Other Platforms and Activities

    01:22 Introducing the Concept of Narcissist Immunity

    02:12 Personal Story of Dealing with Narcissistic and Emotionally Immature Parents

    03:09 The Impact of Narcissistic Immunity on Personal Relationships

    04:54 The Role of Emotional Maturity in Parenting

    12:32 Understanding the Difference Between Narcissistic and Emotionally Immature Parents

    18:33 Introducing Carl’s Story: Growing Up with a Narcissistic Mother and Emotionally Immature Father

    22:29 The Impact of Narcissistic and Emotionally Immature Parents on Carl’s Life

    26:33 The Role of Memory and Confabulation in Narcissistic and Emotionally Immature Behavior

    28:14 The Fear of Abandonment in Narcissistic Relationships

    28:46 Understanding Carl’s Story: A Case Study

    29:34 The Impact of Parental Expectations on Children

    29:42 The Role of Emotional Regulation in Parenting

    30:22 The Journey to Self-Acceptance: Carl’s Story

    30:58 The Power of Whole Object Relations in Therapy

    32:08 The Influence of Childhood Experiences on Career Choices

    35:27 The Impact of Narcissistic Parents on Children

    44:13 The Struggle to Love the Real Child: A Parent’s Challenge

    47:54 The Emotional Consequences of Unmet Expectations

    52:26 The Role of Empathy in Parenting

    53:24 The Importance of Healthy Relationship Patterns

    56:08 Conclusion: The Journey to Secure Attachment

    Find all the latest links to podcasts, courses, Tony’s newsletter, and more at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouch

    And follow Tony on the Virtual Couch YouTube channel for a sneak preview of his upcoming podcast “Murder on the Couch,” where True Crime meets therapy, co-hosted with his daughter Sydney. You can watch a pre-release clip here https://youtu.be/-RkRq8SrQy0

    Subscribe to Tony’s latest podcast, “Waking Up to Narcissism Q&A – Premium Podcast,” on the Apple Podcast App. 

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/waking-up-to-narcissism-q-a/id1667287384

    Go to http://tonyoverbay.com/workshop to sign up for Tony’s “Magnetize Your Marriage” virtual workshop. The cost is only $19, and you’ll learn the top 3 things you can do NOW to create a Magnetic Marriage. 

    You can learn more about Tony’s pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com And visit http://tonyoverbay.com and sign up to receive updates on upcoming programs and podcasts.

    Tony mentioned a product that he used to take out all of the “uh’s” and “um’s” that, in his words, “must be created by wizards and magic!” because it’s that good! To learn more about Descript, click here https://descript.com?lmref=bSWcEQ

    57 min
  • Emotional Whiplash in Narcissistic/Emotionally Immature Relationships

    Tony tackles the topic of emotional whiplash in narcissistic relationships. He explores how people can feel loved and appreciated one moment and then demeaned and dismissed the next by a narcissistic partner, leading to confusion and emotional turmoil. Using the story of Sarah and Mike, he unpacks this unpredictable and damaging dynamic. Tony also explains concepts like whole object relations and object constancy and how they become compromised in emotionally immature relationships. He finally provides a broad range of personal experiences from his listeners, further illustrating the impact of emotional whiplash in people’s lives.

    00:00 Introduction and Topic Presentation

    00:23 Understanding Emotional Whiplash

    00:37 Real-Life Example: Sarah and Mike’s Story

    04:26 Concepts of Whole Object Relations and Object Constancy

    05:32 Narcissistic Emotional Whiplash

    06:14 Impact of Emotional Whiplash on Relationships

    07:05 Understanding Mike’s Emotional Immaturity

    12:18 Sarah’s Struggles and Emotional Whiplash

    16:49 Real-Life Examples of Emotional Whiplash

    36:50 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    Find all the latest links to podcasts, courses, Tony’s newsletter, and more at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouch

    And follow Tony on the Virtual Couch YouTube channel for a sneak preview of his upcoming podcast “Murder on the Couch,” where True Crime meets therapy, co-hosted with his daughter Sydney. You can watch a pre-release clip here https://youtu.be/-RkRq8SrQy0

    Subscribe to Tony’s latest podcast, “Waking Up to Narcissism Q&A – Premium Podcast,” on the Apple Podcast App. 

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/waking-up-to-narcissism-q-a/id1667287384

    Go to http://tonyoverbay.com/workshop to sign up for Tony’s “Magnetize Your Marriage” virtual workshop. The cost is only $19, and you’ll learn the top 3 things you can do NOW to create a Magnetic Marriage. 

    You can learn more about Tony’s pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com And visit http://tonyoverbay.com and sign up to receive updates on upcoming programs and podcasts.

    Tony mentioned a product that he used to take out all of the “uh’s” and “um’s” that, in his words, “must be created by wizards and magic!” because it’s that good! To learn more about Descript, click here https://descript.com?lmref=bSWcEQ

    38 min
  • Can You Ever Express YOUR Feelings to Narcissists and Feel Seen?

    If you say “it” the right way, will the narcissist ever get “it” whatever “it” is? Tony introduces his ‘Five Foolproof Formulas for Navigating Narcissistic Nonsense,’ which helps maintain emotional stability and a sense of self in challenging relationships. Tony also critically analyzes a passage from the book ‘Rethinking Narcissism’ by Dr. Craig Malkin, where he finds a logical inconsistency that might give false hope to ‘pathologically kind persons’ who constantly try to induce ‘aha moments’ in their narcissistic partners. He also highlights the concept of differentiation of self and its importance in maintaining one’s emotional stability and sense of self in the face of challenging dynamics in relationships with narcissistic individuals. 

    00:00 Introduction and Welcome

    00:45 Understanding the Impact of Stress on Physical Health

    02:36 Upcoming Topics and Listener Engagement

    05:23 Exploring the Concept of Narcissism

    06:09 Dissecting a Book Passage on Narcissism

    08:47 The Five Foolproof Formulas for Navigating Narcissistic Nonsense

    15:52 Understanding Healthy Ego and Pathological Defensive Narcissism

    17:07 Analyzing a Book on Narcissism

    22:58 Contradictions in Narcissism Advice

    24:53 Understanding the Power of Self-Blame

    25:30 The Pathologically Kind Person and Their Burden of Responsibility

    26:54 The Struggle for Control in Relationships

    28:16 Personal Story: The Impact of Powerlessness

    34:42 The Importance of Differentiation in Relationships

    36:51 The Dangers of Emotional Inconsistency

    40:06 The Reality of Expressing Feelings to a Narcissist

    47:11 The Role of Differentiation in Dealing with Narcissists

    54:24 Conclusion: Knowing When to Engage and When to Step Back

    Find all the latest links to podcasts, courses, Tony’s newsletter, and more at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouch

    And follow Tony on the Virtual Couch YouTube channel for a sneak preview of his upcoming podcast “Murder on the Couch,” where True Crime meets therapy, co-hosted with his daughter Sydney. You can watch a pre-release clip here https://youtu.be/-RkRq8SrQy0

    Subscribe to Tony’s latest podcast, “Waking Up to Narcissism Q&A – Premium Podcast,” on the Apple Podcast App. 

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/waking-up-to-narcissism-q-a/id1667287384

    Go to http://tonyoverbay.com/workshop to sign up for Tony’s “Magnetize Your Marriage” virtual workshop. The cost is only $19, and you’ll learn the top 3 things you can do NOW to create a Magnetic Marriage. 

    You can learn more about Tony’s pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com And visit http://tonyoverbay.com and sign up to receive updates on upcoming programs and podcasts.

    Tony mentioned a product that he used to take out all of the “uh’s” and “um’s” that, in his words, “must be created by wizards and magic!” because it’s that good! To learn more about Descript, click here https://descript.com?lmref=bSWcEQ

    57 min
  • Navigating the Challenges of Co-Parenting with the Emotionally Immature/Narcissist

    Tony unpacks the complexities of co-parenting with a narcissistic or emotionally immature individual. Addressing a listener’s question, Tony delves into the nature of developing children, labeling them as ‘little narcissists’ due to their inherently self-centered perspective. Tony identifies this as a critical stage of normal human development and explains how these traits vary distinctively in the adult narcissist. He also shares his four-pillar framework for effective communication – assuming good intentions, avoiding declaring the other person wrong, asking questions before commenting, and leaning in and staying present. He demonstrates how these can be applied in co-parenting scenarios.

    00:00 Introduction and Welcome

    00:17 Reflecting on the Past and Looking Forward

    00:58 Discussing Parenting and Co-Parenting

    01:37 Understanding the Impact of Co-Parenting with a Narcissist

    02:06 Exploring the Concept of ‘Little Narcissists’

    02:46 Case Study: Sarah’s Experience with Divorce

    04:03 The Importance of Communication in Parenting

    05:07 Understanding the Impact of Parental Decisions on Children

    06:01 The Role of Therapy in Understanding Childhood Experiences

    06:15 Understanding the Self-Centered Nature of Children

    07:08 The Impact of Parental Divorce on Children

    09:26 Navigating Parenting Challenges with a Difficult Partner

    11:47 Understanding the Concept of ‘Little Narcissists’ in Parenting

    14:59 The Difference Between Healthy Self-Care and Emotionally Immature Selfishness

    25:34 Understanding Egosyntonic and Ego-Dystonic Concepts in Parenting

    28:44 Understanding Egosyntonic Narcissism and Emotional Maturity

    29:14 Co-parenting with a Narcissistic or Emotionally Immature Partner

    29:27 The Importance of Fostering Healthy Development in Children

    30:30 The Four Pillars of a Connected Conversation

    31:41 Applying the Four Pillars in Different Contexts

    35:27 The Role of the Four Pillars in Co-parenting

    57:53 The Impact of the Four Pillars on Children

    01:00:02 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    Find all the latest links to podcasts, courses, Tony’s newsletter, and more at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouch

    And follow Tony on the Virtual Couch YouTube channel for a sneak preview of his upcoming podcast “Murder on the Couch,” where True Crime meets therapy, co-hosted with his daughter Sydney. You can watch a pre-release clip here https://youtu.be/-RkRq8SrQy0

    Subscribe to Tony’s latest podcast, “Waking Up to Narcissism Q&A – Premium Podcast,” on the Apple Podcast App. 

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/waking-up-to-narcissism-q-a/id1667287384

    Go to http://tonyoverbay.com/workshop to sign up for Tony’s “Magnetize Your Marriage” virtual workshop. The cost is only $19, and you’ll learn the top 3 things you can do NOW to create a Magnetic Marriage. 

    You can learn more about Tony’s pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com And visit http://tonyoverbay.com and sign up to receive updates on upcoming programs and podcasts.

    Tony mentioned a product that he used to take out all of the “uh’s” and “um’s” that, in his words, “must be created by wizards and magic!” because it’s that good! To learn more about Descript, click here https://descript.com?lmref=bSWcEQ

    1 hr 1 min
  • Still Wondering if YOU Are the Narcissist/Did They Finally “Get it?” – Introducing “Shelf Life”

    “If I’m asking if I’m the narcissist, then Tony says I’m not!” Tony shares that he receives more feedback on this concept than any other from WUTN listeners. But what happens when the narcissist or emotionally immature person in your life gets ahold of this “script?” Does simply repeating this sentence elicit change? Tony details this question and introduces the concept of ‘shelf life’, a temporary behavioral change in emotionally immature people. We debate the question, ‘If you’re asking yourself if you’re a narcissist, then are you one?’ and touch on the use of therapy or self-help methods as tools for manipulation. As we progress through the episode, we discuss how ‘John’ used therapy to manipulate ‘Emily’ and appear as a problem solver rather than acknowledging his shortcomings. Overall, the episode is an insightful exploration of emotional immaturity, narcissistic traits, and manipulative behaviors in relationships.

    00:00 Introduction and Story of John and Emily

    01:27 The Breaking Point and Decision to Seek Therapy

    02:09 Initial Therapy Session and Promises Made

    03:22 The Short-lived Change and Return to Old Patterns

    05:47 Understanding the Concept of ‘Shelf Life’ in Emotional Change

    09:08 The Power of Writing and Self-Expression

    15:04 The Narcissist’s Reaction to the Podcast

    16:27 Doubts, Confusion, and the Struggle to Stay Strong

    32:53 Recognizing the Difference: Working on Things vs. Escaping Discomfort

    33:15 The Narcissist in Therapy: A Case Study

    33:37 The Power of Self-Questioning: Are You the Narcissist?

    34:07 The Concept of Shelf Life and Positive Tension

    34:37 The Nurtured Heart Approach: A Parenting Model

    35:40 The Struggle of Change: A Personal Story

    36:10 Trusting Your Gut: Recognizing Manipulation in Therapy

    36:39 The Aha Moment: Acceptance and Curiosity

    37:37 The Ultimatum: Divorce or Seek Help

    39:40 The Journey of Awakening: Acknowledging the Past and Embracing the Future

    40:05 The Reality of Narcissism: Recognizing Traits and Codependency

    41:59 The Power of Community: Reading Comments from the Group

    51:02 The Story of John and Emily: A Case Study on Shelf Life

    52:39 Understanding Shelf Life: Temporary Behavioral Change

    56:54 The Power of Self-Reflection: Embracing Solitude

    Find all the latest links to podcasts, courses, Tony’s newsletter, and more at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouch

    And follow Tony on the Virtual Couch YouTube channel for a sneak preview of his upcoming podcast “Murder on the Couch,” where True Crime meets therapy, co-hosted with his daughter Sydney. You can watch a pre-release clip here https://youtu.be/-RkRq8SrQy0

    Subscribe to Tony’s latest podcast, “Waking Up to Narcissism Q&A – Premium Podcast,” on the Apple Podcast App. 

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/waking-up-to-narcissism-q-a/id1667287384

    Go to http://tonyoverbay.com/workshop to sign up for Tony’s “Magnetize Your Marriage” virtual workshop. The cost is only $19, and you’ll learn the top 3 things you can do NOW to create a Magnetic Marriage. 

    You can learn more about Tony’s pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com And visit http://tonyoverbay.com and sign up to receive updates on upcoming programs and podcasts.

    Tony mentioned a product that he used to take out all of the “uh’s” and “um’s” that, in his words, “must be created by wizards and magic!” because it’s that good! To learn more about Descript, click here https://descript.com?lmref=bSWcEQ

    59 min
  • Kate Anthony, Author of “The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage” on Deciphering Divorce, Confronting Decisions, and Embracing Empowerment

    Tony and Kate Anthony, divorce coach and author of “The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage,” (https://amzn.to/47V1AKe) unpack the complex dynamics involved with the decision to stay or leave a relationship, typically with an emotionally immature or narcissistic partner. Kate shares her divorce story and explores the importance of establishing personal boundaries and self-care throughout the journey. The conversation discusses the fundamental need for individuals to recognize and reclaim their right to happiness outside a dysfunctional marital relationship. They also talk about the impact of staying in an emotionally abusive relationship for the sake of the kids and the different roles that a therapist and coach can play in the helping process. You can find out more about Kate at her website http://kateanthony.com and if you are looking for safe ways to purchase the book, please visit http://kateanthony.com/dword

    00:01 Introduction and Initial Banter

    00:14 Discussing Kate’s Book and Its Impact

    01:08 Kate’s Journey and Her Book’s Purpose

    01:46 The Role of Narcissism in Relationships

    02:36 Kate’s Personal Experience with Narcissism

    03:16 The Impact of Divorce and Making the Decision

    05:22 The Aftermath of Leaving a Narcissistic Relationship

    06:31 The Role of Codependency in Relationships

    13:18 Kate’s Career in Acting and Its Influence

    16:21 The Importance of Choosing Yourself

    22:33 The Process of Knowing When to Leave

    24:05 The Power of Self-Acknowledgement

    24:23 Understanding the Impact of Denial

    24:39 The Importance of Self-Admission

    25:12 The Struggle of Facing the Truth

    25:29 The Role of Therapists and Coaches

    25:50 The Concept of Leading Indicators

    26:42 The Reality of Unhealthy Relationships

    27:09 The Process of Decision Making

    27:32 The Power of Self-Empowerment

    27:41 The Role of Coaches in Decision Making

    27:47 The Impact of Direct Communication

    28:10 The Importance of Authenticity in Relationships

    28:23 The Role of Therapists in Decision Making

    28:56 The Collaboration between Therapists and Coaches

    29:14 The Importance of Training for Coaches

    29:38 The Role of Therapists in Guiding Decisions

    29:58 The Challenge of Taking Action

    30:30 The Importance of Addressing the Impact on Kids

    30:42 The Reality of Co-Parenting with a Narcissist

    31:27 The Impact of Divorce on Kids

    32:00 The Importance of Authenticity in Parenting

    32:14 The Reality of Staying for the Kids

    41:33 The Importance of Choosing Happiness

    43:11 The Importance of Living Your Truth

    43:13 The Importance of Living Authentically

    43:52 The Importance of Choosing Love over Control

    44:14 The Importance of Self-Care

    44:17 The Importance of Being Enough for Yourself

    Find all the latest links to podcasts, courses, Tony’s newsletter, and more at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouch

    Please follow Tony’s new Waking Up to Narcissism Instagram account here https://www.instagram.com/wutnpod/

    Subscribe to Tony’s latest podcast, “Waking Up to Narcissism Q&A – Premium Podcast,” on the Apple Podcast App. 

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/waking-up-to-narcissism-q-a/id1667287384

    Go to http://tonyoverbay.com/workshop to sign up for Tony’s “Magnetize Your Marriage” virtual workshop. The cost is only $19, and you’ll learn the top 3 things you can do NOW to create a Magnetic Marriage. 

    You can learn more about Tony’s pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com And visit http://tonyoverbay.com and sign up to receive updates on upcoming programs and podcasts.

    Tony mentioned a product that he used to take out all of the “uh’s” and “um’s” that, in his words, “must be created by wizards and magic!” because it’s that good! To learn more about Descript, click here https://descript.com?lmref=bSWcEQ

    57 min
  • Understanding the Complexity of Apologies & The Difficulties of Happiness

    Tony Overbay discusses some individuals’ challenges when attempting to issue sincere and effective apologies. He discusses our evolutionary predisposition to spot danger and make comparisons, making happiness and contentment difficult to maintain. Tony explores the concepts of self-compassion, mindful self-reflection, and effective apology skills, which he believes are critical for personal growth and emotional maturity. He helps listeners understand how growing up with emotionally immature or narcissistic parents can shape an individual’s understanding of taking responsibility for one’s actions. He provides insights into why narcissistic individuals in particular, struggle with apologies and explains the steps to deliver a genuine apology.

    00:00 Introduction and Hardest Words to Say

    00:25 The Difficulty of Saying Sorry

    01:37 Welcome to the Podcast and Host Introduction

    01:45 The Origin of Apology Difficulty

    03:12 The Evolutionary Perspective on Apologies

    05:48 The Role of Comparison and Inadequacy in Apologies

    07:25 The Impact of Fear of Abandonment on Apologies

    13:20 The Art of Making a Sincere and Effective Apology

    20:26 The Importance of Context in Apologies

    24:40 Relevance of Apologies in Today’s World

    25:18 Understanding the Impact of Emotionally Immature Parents

    25:55 The Role of Therapy in Understanding Emotional Immaturity

    26:36 The Importance of Apologies and Taking Ownership

    27:40 The Assumption of Badness: Misconceptions about Admitting Fault

    28:47 Breaking Free from the Cycle of Non-Accountability

    29:26 The Role of Self-Compassion in Offering Effective Apologies

    30:32 Understanding the Six Steps of an Apology

    35:45 The Challenge of Offering Genuine Apologies for Emotionally Immature Individuals

    36:01 The Dangers of Superficial Apologies

    41:16 The Power of Self-Compassion and Mindful Self-Reflection

    44:11 Conclusion: Action-Based Takeaways for Personal Growth

    Find all the latest links to podcasts, courses, Tony’s newsletter, and more at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouch

    Please follow Tony’s new Waking Up to Narcissism Instagram account here https://www.instagram.com/wutnpod/

    Subscribe to Tony’s latest podcast, “Waking Up to Narcissism Q&A – Premium Podcast,” on the Apple Podcast App. 

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/waking-up-to-narcissism-q-a/id1667287384

    Go to http://tonyoverbay.com/workshop to sign up for Tony’s “Magnetize Your Marriage” virtual workshop. The cost is only $19, and you’ll learn the top 3 things you can do NOW to create a Magnetic Marriage. 

    You can learn more about Tony’s pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com And visit http://tonyoverbay.com and sign up to receive updates on upcoming programs and podcasts.

    Tony mentioned a product that he used to take out all of the “uh’s” and “um’s” that, in his words, “must be created by wizards and magic!” because it’s that good! To learn more about Descript, click here https://descript.com?lmref=bSWcEQ

    47 min
  • Abuse, God, and Self-Discovery with Ryan Anderson, PhD., LMFT, and Author of ‘The Choice to Leave Abuse’

    How does abuse impact an individual’s spirituality and relationship with God? And how critical is it for a spiritual leader to be non-judgmental, empathetic, and compassionate when someone comes into their office talking about abuse? These critical questions are at the heart of today’s episode. Tony Overbay, LMFT, engages in an insightful conversation with Ryan Anderson, PhD, LMFT, and author of “The Choice to Leave Abuse.” This episode explores the complex issue of abuse, especially within the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS), and addresses many common misconceptions about the role of the authority figure in a church congregation. 

    They touch on the prevalence and damaging effects of emotional immaturity and narcissistic traits on relationships and in church leadership. A significant part of the discussion focuses on epigenetics, shedding light on how abuse impacts individuals at a genetic level and offers hope for healing and growth.

    The episode also addresses the sensitive topic of spiritual abuse within the LDS community. Overbay and Anderson examine the hesitancy of community leaders to confront and address abuse, highlighting the urgent need for supportive environments. They dissect the stigmas and misconceptions in the community, emphasizing the importance of making decisions prioritizing personal well-being and safety.

    While centered on the LDS community, the themes discussed in this episode have universal relevance. Topics like emotional intelligence, the far-reaching impact of abuse, and the crucial role of support for survivors transcend religious and cultural boundaries. The conversation between Overbay and Anderson serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of empowerment and support for survivors, asserting that spirituality and one’s relationship with God should aid, not hinder, the journey to overcome abuse.

    Find all the latest links to podcasts, courses, Tony’s newsletter, and more at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouch

    Please follow Tony’s new Waking Up to Narcissism Instagram account here https://www.instagram.com/wutnpod/

    Subscribe to Tony’s latest podcast, “Waking Up to Narcissism Q&A – Premium Podcast,” on the Apple Podcast App. 

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/waking-up-to-narcissism-q-a/id1667287384

    Go to http://tonyoverbay.com/workshop to sign up for Tony’s “Magnetize Your Marriage” virtual workshop. The cost is only $19, and you’ll learn the top 3 things you can do NOW to create a Magnetic Marriage. 

    You can learn more about Tony’s pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com And visit http://tonyoverbay.com and sign up to receive updates on upcoming programs and podcasts.

    Tony mentioned a product that he used to take out all of the “uh’s” and “um’s” that, in his words, “must be created by wizards and magic!” because it’s that good! To learn more about Descript, click here https://descript.com?lmref=bSWcEQ

    1 hr
  • Too Smart for Their Own Good: Why Narcissists Love Conspiracy Theories

    Ever wondered why some highly educated people fall for outlandish conspiracy theories? Dive into the latest episode of ‘Waking Narcissism’ with host Tony Overbay, a licensed marriage and family therapist, as he tackles this intriguing question. This thought-provoking episode explores the unexpected relationship between education, narcissism, and susceptibility to conspiracy theories, based on insights from Mark Travers, PhD’s article ‘Educated Narcissists Fall for Conspiracy Theories.’https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/202310/why-educated-narcissists-fall-for-conspiracy-theories

    Tony starts by differentiating between narcissism and emotional immaturity, shedding light on how these distinct traits influence an individual’s worldview. Discover why people with high levels of narcissistic traits like grandiosity and a need for uniqueness, particularly those who are well-educated, might be more inclined to believe in conspiracy theories. The episode delves deep into the concepts of cognitive reflection and the Dunning-Kruger effect, illustrating how critical thinking and self-awareness can diminish the impact of narcissism on belief in unfounded theories. Through real-life examples, anecdotal stories, and actionable insights, Tony emphasizes the importance of introspection, humility, and the continuous pursuit of knowledge. Join us for an enlightening journey into the psychological underpinnings of conspiracy theory susceptibility and learn how to navigate a world brimming with complex and often misleading information with a critical and open mind.

    Find all the latest links to podcasts, courses, Tony’s newsletter, and more at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouch

    Please follow Tony’s new Waking Up to Narcissism Instagram account here https://www.instagram.com/wutnpod/

    Subscribe to Tony’s latest podcast, “Waking Up to Narcissism Q&A – Premium Podcast,” on the Apple Podcast App. 

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/waking-up-to-narcissism-q-a/id1667287384

    Go to http://tonyoverbay.com/workshop to sign up for Tony’s “Magnetize Your Marriage” virtual workshop. The cost is only $19, and you’ll learn the top 3 things you can do NOW to create a Magnetic Marriage. 

    You can learn more about Tony’s pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com And visit http://tonyoverbay.com and sign up to receive updates on upcoming programs and podcasts.

    Tony mentioned a product that he used to take out all of the “uh’s” and “um’s” that, in his words, “must be created by wizards and magic!” because it’s that good! To learn more about Descript, click here https://descript.com?lmref=bSWcEQ

    48 min

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“Waking Up to Narcissism” is a podcast hosted by Tony Overbay, LMFT, host of the award-winning Virtual Couch podcast, dedicated to helping individuals recognize and navigate narcissistic traits and…