Is being the nice guy the answer? Looking at what is going on with people and observing human condition, you can be aware of the different personality types and the way people are. When you are with people, you're probably evaluating whether they are nice people or not. Do they appeal to you or do they not? Now look within yourself. Look at your personality. What do you enjoy? How are you with other people? Are you a fixer or are you the pushy type? It's powerful for us to know who we are, what we attract, and how we like it so you can determine for yourself where you're at and allow yourself to find the balance into that neutral place where you’ll find the joy.