Walk As 1

In this episode we discus our reflection on our year in 2022.

We spent a significant amount of time on self work. In itself self work is great. It is good to really discover who you are and deal with your traumas. Where the danger comes in is that it can cause separation in your marriage.

We have found that there is a dance of self work and learning to come together with that work and implement it into your marriage.

If you are a growth mindset couple this episode is for you. We hope you enjoy this episode!

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In this episode we discuss coming together in the decision making process.

We have been through an incredible amount of differences in the way we make decisions. This has come from our upbringing and the way we learned to do things. As we work through our differences we are learning how to come together in the process of making decisions.

We share our most recent counseling session and the things we learned about some of our strength and growth areas in our life. This helped us see how we can better come together in the decision making process.

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In this episode we discuss how important it is to split the load.

In your marriage it is easy to get caught up in just doing things without ever really talking about who does what or takes care of certain things. It is important that you discuss this in your marriage and share the load.

Marriage is a partnership and so treat it like that and partner to gather to share the tasks at hand.

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In this episode we share our tendency to have shiny object syndrome.

So many times in our lives use get distracted by things that appear like they will give us what we want. Often we find that those things do not give us what we want and actually take us further away from what we are truly seeking.

Stand firm in what you want and don't be distracted by the things that are not going to serve you. Thanks for tuning in!

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In this episode we discuss some really vulnerable stuff. We share the first time that we had the discussion of divorce.

Before that we never et divorce be an option. We had a boundary around it, until we let that boundary slide. Once we let that boundary slide we went through some extra obstacles in our marriage. Once you let a discussion like that occur it becomes something that can be a constant thing to work through.

If you've ever had this conversation you know what can arise from it. As we continue to work through our stuff we want you to know that you are not alone and that you can get through anything! Bring those boundaries back and don't quit on you r marriage! Its worth it!

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In this episode we talk about something that has recently come up in our marriage. Desi has recently had it on her heart to share the importance of not nagging on your husband.

Your first thought as a man might be see, I knew my wife was wrong in the way she treats me. Men hold on a seconded because this does not mean you get to act however you want to and expect your wife not to get frustrated with you. Men lead your wives well. Women stop mothering your husband.

When you learn to come together in this you can have a deeper connection in your marriage. We hope you enjoy this episode!

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In this episode we talk about the importance of feeling wanted in your marriage.

Our core values in our marriage are to make sure we feel safe, been, and heard, which leads to you feeling wanted.

We discuss some of the things that we are doing in our marriage to make each other feel wanted. We believe if you implement somer of these things in your marriage you will feel wanted to!

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In this episode we talk about anger, fighting, and a few tools that we use to work through our disagreements.

As we continue to walk through our marriage we find that at times we waste a lot of time fighting over things that don't really matter. If you are finding yourself facing these same issues tune in to hear how we are working through these things.

We offer up two tools that we use that have been very effective for us and our communication. We hope you enjoy this episode!

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In this episode we cover why we are choosing to wake up in our lives.

For the first part of our lives we walked around completely asleep. Unaware of so many things that was going on around us.

As we began to wake up and see we realized all of the parts of life that we were missing out on. As we are more aware of what is going on around us life has become so much more vibrant and whole.

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In this episode we dive into a recent discovery in our marriage. We have spent our life constantly trying to make each other happy. Constantly concerned with the how we are making each other feel.

While it is important to be aware of how your actions are effecting your spouse it is equally important to remember that it is not you responsiblility to make your spouse happy. That lyes in the hands of your spouse.

Learn to come together in your marriage and work together. When you do you will see how powerful your marriage can be.

If you are looking for any resources please reach out and we will share all the ones we have used in our family. We hope you enjoy the episode!

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