In our algorithm-driven world, we’ve grown used to filtering out everything that doesn’t match our preferences. Paul calls us to something radically different. In Ephesians 4, he tells us to “bear with one another in love,” using the Greek word anechomai, which means to be patient with and accept others as they are. It’s about learning to live with others when they are difficult, different, or don’t think like we do. Following Jesus means resisting the urge to demand people change to fit our preferences and instead learning to love them as they are.