What I Learned:

⇢ There are two extreme ends of boundary types:

1- Too ridged: nothing comes in, and nothing goes out, strong need to protect self and a need to feel in control (so nothing hurts me and nothing unexpected happens)

2- Really loose boundaries (barely there): whatever you say go, it's up to you, I can't say no, and I'll deal with the consequences later.

⇢ God gave us human beings a space where we can choose there for it's not fair for us to dictate to others what they should do, feel, behave.. yes to guide and be there but we cant force. It was a space given by God.

( إِنَّا هَدَيْنَاهُ السَّبِيلَ إِمَّا شَاكِرًا وَإِمَّا كَفُورًا)

[ الإنسان: الآية 3 ]

⇢ The fact that God gave us choice means we also need to respect that responsibility in others (AND ourselves) that space is sacred.. take care of it.