Why did they make falling in love look so easy in those early 2000s rom-coms? Because we've been having the opposite experience. You know, some of us grew up believing we'd have love figured out by now, then life happens.

This week, we talk about the expectations we had for dating versus the reality we've experienced thus far. From changing standards and learning to set boundaries to navigating independence, careers, and vulnerability, we explore what it means to look for a relationship where you're not just wanted, but truly understood.

We also reflect on the lessons we've learned, the mistakes we're grateful for, and the advice we'd give our younger selves about love.

What advice would you give your 20-year-old self about dating? We'd love to hear your perspective.