February 12, 2026

We Are Christian First, Everything Else Second

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Outrage is loud, but clarity changes people. We open with a hard look at a dehumanizing image of Barack and Michelle Obama that traveled through channels of power, then move past the news cycle to ask a deeper question: what is forming our instincts? When Christians minimize cruelty because it helps their side, something fundamental has slipped out of order—and that disorder isn’t primarily political. It’s spiritual.

Across this conversation, we trace how dehumanization works, why it never stays “just a joke,” and how silence slowly tutors the church into defending what once grieved us. We talk about media habits that shape reflexes, the difference between discernment and numbness, and why “Christians first, then Americans” is not a slogan but a needed reordering of loves. We name Christian nationalism as a spiritual disorder that fuses faith to national identity, making cruelty feel excusable if it promises a win. Then we turn to the way of Jesus: refusing domination, protecting dignity, and aligning means with ends so our public witness matches our message.

You’ll walk away with five practical moves for a Christ-shaped response: don’t laugh at cruelty, critique your own side, slow down false urgency, guard dignity while you disagree, and choose witness over winning. Along the way, we draw from history, the early church, and the Beatitudes to show that restraint is not surrender—it’s strength grounded in identity. If you’ve felt torn between silence and outrage, or weary of faith being used as a weapon, this is a path back to calm conviction and credible hope.

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