In this week’s podcast, I explain how we are committed to a person’s habits, not the person. Whether building a friendship or a romantic partnership, we must understand who they are. Examining their habits is the only way to understand a person’s core. Can we live with a messy person? Do they avoid conflict? Are they very surface thinkers? Watch who they are and not who they say they are. Then ask yourself, “can I commit to their habits?”