The stories we tell ourselves become our reality. This episode explores the powerful idea that "we are what we think" and offers a practical guide to get off autopilot and intentionally choose the thoughts and beliefs that shape your identity. Learn how to identify the limiting stories you've held onto and replace them with empowering ones that serve the life you want to build.

In this episode, you will learn:

How your thoughts literally shape who you are and how you act.

Why many of us operate on "autopilot," living by old labels from childhood that no longer serve us.

How choosing an identity on purpose can work for you or against you.

The power of identity-shaping stories through personal examples of resilience during family crises.

A simple, actionable pen-and-paper exercise to identify what you like, what you're good at, and what you're not good at.

A step-by-step action plan to choose a new identity, practice a new thought, and make it part of your reality through small, consistent actions.