Lit From Within

We Don't Need Advice, We Need To Be Witnessed In Our Process


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In this episode, I dive into a powerful lesson that’s been showing up again and again: we don’t have all the answers for other people. Our ego wants to fix, advise, and control—but true connection happens when we let that go and lead with curiosity instead.

I share a vulnerable moment with my sister that left me feeling unseen, and how it revealed the importance of being witnessed rather than advised. I also reflect on a client’s struggle with family dynamics, and how deeply each of us is walking our own soul-led journey—one that isn’t always meant to be “solved” by others.

This episode is an invitation to soften, release the need to control, and honor the people in your life by truly seeing them. When we stop thinking we know best and start getting curious, we create space for healing, trust, and real transformation.

Next time someone opens up to you, pause before giving advice. Ask a question instead. You might be surprised what unfolds.

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Lit From WithinBy Kelsey Clevett