Dating today feels confusing… but it’s not random.

In this episode of At Spiritual Speed, we sit down with a dating coach to break down why modern relationships feel harder than ever, even for people who are self-aware and doing the work.

We talk about emotional availability, patterns in dating, and the dynamic that often goes unspoken: women tend to choose when sex happens, and men tend to choose when commitment happens.

But more importantly, we explore what’s actually underneath the patterns people keep repeating.

If you’ve ever found yourself asking:
Why do I keep attracting the same type of person?
Why does it feel like no one is consistent?
Why do I feel anxious even when things seem “good”?

This conversation will give you clarity.

In this episode, we cover:
• Why modern dating feels disconnected and inconsistent
• The difference between readiness and compatibility
• Emotional patterns that keep repeating in relationships
• How your nervous system influences who you choose
• What healthy dating actually looks like in real life

This isn’t about blaming men or women.

It’s about becoming aware of what you’re participating in so you can choose differently.

Listen, reflect, and notice what resonates.

How to find Moon:

https://www.instagram.com/growwithmoon/

His theme song: B.I.G - Big Poppa

How to find the Host (me) Fern:

https://www.instagram.com/plantednowhere/

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