Calvin discusses the popular idea that spouses/partners must make sacrifices to one another if a relationship is to go well. Statements like "happy wife, happy life" or "just learn how to say 'yes dear'" are worth a laugh, but quietly contribute to a fundamentally unhealthy approach to relationships. Petulant participation in a relationship is a recipe for disaster, but so is chronic 'virtuous' self-sacrifice. Contact us: https://forms.gle/DintopEshsFDCbdb7