"...and now men are mad that they have to sleep in the bed they made because they're alone in it."

"Sex has become a commodity you have to use another person's body to get."

This time, we got impassioned about the state of our society as it pertains to the capitalistic, patriarchal standards that have been set, and how they affect both men and women.

We had grand plans to record our responses to a different podcast that was sent to Amber a few days prior. However, we only got about 8 minutes in to the 2.5 hour video and spent this entire recording debriefing what was said during those 8 minutes, along with what Amber remembered from the first half (since that's all she could stand to listen to).

Plans may have been thwarted since we will not be subjecting our nervous systems to the rest of that video, but what we got here is still important. Get angry with us. You're welcome.

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Ryan's friend Chris came in from out of town, and we couldn't not rope him into recording with us. For three hours. What you have before you is a sampling of the best pieces of that conversation.

The Breakdown:

0:41 - We explain the chronicles

2:30 - Ryan is still explaining the chronicles

2:32 - Amber cuts Ryan off

3:10 - The Chris Chronicles actually begin. (This first section is mainly about communication within business)

11:17 - Cooking, magic & consent

26:04 - Relationships, success & purpose

1:02:49 - Communication styles within relationships

1:13:10 - Politics & empathy

For more Chris: Dads Unfiltered

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In this episode, we talk about the role of curiosity in the creative process, having a collaborative spirit with your medium, and meander around a bit before landing on how Amber helps Ryan make things better.

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In this episode, we dig into the complicated question of philosophical legacy. When a thinker contributes both brilliance and deeply flawed ideas, how do we evaluate their work (i.e. Immanuel Kant was racist af, y'all. Like, what do we even do with that? And WHY DID NO ONE TELL US THIS???)?

*ahem*

We explore how history curates and preserves knowledge, why some ideas survive while others fade, and whether so-called 'cancellation' actually achieves anything. We also discuss what it means to inherit intellectual frameworks and how we decide what to keep, what to discard, and what to rebuild from scratch.

Topics Covered:

• Philosophy and Moral Contradictions: Can we separate valuable insights from deeply flawed beliefs? Should we?

• The Canonization of Ideas: Why do certain philosophies endure while others are erased? Who decides?

• The Illusion of Cancellation: Does deplatforming a person or idea actually remove their influence, or does it just push it underground?

• Intellectual Inheritance: When we realize that some of our foundational beliefs have problematic origins, do we discard them entirely, or refine them?

  
  

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Last season was largely about identity. This season we're going to try (as much as our ADHD brains will allow) to discuss how those identities interact with others... in other words, relationships.

We're starting off strong with this one by exploring our relationships with video games (trust me, it will make sense), parents, significant others, and society in general. We chat about the limitations of language and the nuances of human connection.

Additionally, we analyze how people react not just to what is done, but to what those actions say about who someone is—and, in some cases, what those actions imply about their perception of others.

It's the thing behind the thing, y'all.

#HumanConnection #DeepConversations #EmotionalIntelligence #Understanding #PerspectiveShift #Privilege #CommunicationMatters #SeeingAndBeingSeen #EmotionalLabor #TheThingBehindTheThing #PodcastLife #MindfulCommunication #SocialAwareness

Because who can resist talking about themselves talking about...other...things? Yes.

What else are we going to talk about? Suppose you'll have to stick around and find out.

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This is the second part in a two-parter. And also the season 1 finale.

We recorded this the day after dropping the first three episodes of the podcast. You'll hear how differently we experienced it and the stuff it inevitably dug up.

Key themes include:

According to ChatGPT: Whether you're navigating your own questions of belonging, trying to make sense of human connection, or curious about the ways neurodivergent and marginalized perspectives shape identity, this episode offers vulnerable, thought-provoking insights.

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"There is a paradox between the invisible girl wanting to be seen and simultaneously being terrified to be seen."

We recorded this the day after dropping the first three episodes of the podcast. You'll hear how differently we experienced it and the stuff it inevitably dug up.

Key Topics Discussed:

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In this prologue to the upcoming two-parter (it's tangentially related, but definitely related), we discuss:

Join us as we dissect our internal processing systems, laugh about creating D&D-style human “stat sheets,” and share how neurodivergent brains navigate the world.

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#Masking

#MemoryAndLearning

#GamifiedLife

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