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Everybody talks about aesthetics, 50/50, and matching pajamas. Jalen & Amber Jones are living something different. Their love is built on friendship, shared faith, and real grown choices that don’t always make the algorithm. They met as student athletes, built a bond before the butterflies, and discovered that liking each other is what keeps them steady when emotions spike or schedules get crazy.

In this episode, WE break down the stuff TikTok rarely shows: how tone, word choice, and small gestures repair conflict faster than perfect arguments. How independence becomes interdependence when you start naming expectations instead of guessing them. How a quick check in or a simple “Are you free if I grab dinner with a friend?” protects connection without killing freedom.

WE talk through the shift couples need to make when life gets real. Vows are cute on the wedding day, but they get tested early with job changes, health scares, and tight budgets. The Jones’s let their vows become verbs. They chose to show up, communicate clearly, set shared rhythms, and steward their home like a team that actually plans to win.

And yes, their faith shows up too, not as a vibe but as a lifestyle. They pray over plans, eat together on purpose, and treat leadership like service, not control. Their premarital coaching opened their eyes to blind spots about money, conflict repair, intimacy, and routines that scale with life.

This episode is for anyone who wants real love, not just relationship content. The takeaway is simple and doable: build a friendship that can take a hit, speak expectations out loud, pray over your plans, and let small acts of kindness carry big weight. That’s the kind of love TikTok doesn’t talk about, but everybody needs.

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Hard talks don’t have to end in raised voices or silent retreats. WE walk through the small, repeatable moves that turn conflict into connection: 

• Swapping loaded questions for supportive openings, 
• Picking better moments for serious topics, and using tone as a tool instead of a weapon. 

If “What’s wrong with you?” has ever slammed a door in your home, you’ll hear how “You seem deep in thought, want to talk?” opens one instead.

WE get candid about triggers, past patterns, and why avoiding tough subjects only grows resentment. You’ll learn when to press pause, why environment matters more than you think, and how a simple “How can I help?” disarms defenses. 

WE also dig into intentional date nights with questions that actually deepen intimacy, not just rehash logistics about work and kids. Expect practical examples, from handling money talks without ambush to protecting your partner’s dignity in public. Along the way, WE unpack how love languages evolve and how to update care so it still lands.

At the heart of it all is a team mindset: protect the relationship first, then tackle the problem together. With a few phrase swaps, a smarter sense of timing, and a commitment to listen without fixing, you can build a safer space for honesty. 

If you’re ready to replace battlefields with bridges, hit play and try one strategy today. 

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Marriage communication isn't rocket science, but that doesn't mean it's easy. In this candid episode, Eugene and Latanya tackle the real questions couples are asking about effective communication and provide practical tools to transform your relationship conversations.

The foundation of all successful marriage communication begins with a crucial mindset shift: seeing yourselves as teammates rather than opponents. As Eugene points out, "Good teammates don't fight each other, don't only focus on what's going to make them better in the game, and are willing to do whatever is necessary in order to win." This perspective changes everything about how you approach difficult conversations.

Drawing from both scripture and their own marriage journey, Eugene and Latanya address the top communication challenges couples face. They explore why misunderstandings happen (often due to not truly listening or assuming negative intent), how to handle passive-aggressive behavior (by creating safe spaces for honest discussion), and the importance of timing for meaningful conversations. Their approach combines spiritual wisdom with practical strategies anyone can implement immediately.

The heart of this episode lies in its five actionable communication tools: promoting active listening, gently addressing passive-aggressive patterns, choosing appropriate timing for tough talks, using connection prompts like "How can I support you?", and regularly asking "How can I help?" These simple but powerful practices create an environment where both partners feel seen, heard, and valued.

Ready to transform your marriage communication? Listen now and discover how to build a winning team where understanding replaces confusion, connection replaces conflict, and teamwork becomes your relationship's greatest strength. Share your communication wins with us on social media @We3TheWinningTeam – we'd love to hear how these tools are helping you win together!

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Beyond Words: Healing the Heart Can Improve How We Speak

Marriage communication often feels like speaking different languages, with men and women processing emotion, stress, and decisions differently due to varying perspectives and past experiences. Creating safe spaces for vulnerability is essential for deep connection, requiring active listening without judgment or immediate attempts to fix problems.

• Communication is about connecting, not just talking – 7% of communication is words while 93% is tone and body language
• Truly listening involves full engagement, eye contact, and asking clarifying questions to ensure understanding
• Past trauma alters how we perceive communication, causing us to detect threats even in safe situations
• Pride blocks partnership by making being right more important than being understood
• Creating safe spaces means listening without fixing, not bringing up past issues, and remaining calm during conflict
• Unresolved heart issues inevitably emerge through our words since "the mouth speaks what the heart is full of"
• Communication evolves through different seasons of marriage, requiring continuous adaptation
• Healthy communication builds intimacy, improves conflict resolution, strengthens partnership, and promotes growth
• For pre-marriage couples: discuss conflict resolution styles, shared values, practice vulnerability, seek mentors
• Electronic communication lacks tone and body language, creating more opportunity for misinterpretation

Share this podcast with others who might benefit, subscribe to continue learning with us, and let us know in the comments what communication topics you'd like us to address in future episodes.

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What happens when the fairytale collides with reality? In this eye-opening episode of WE3 The Winning Team Podcast, WE tackle three relationship myths that might be sabotaging your journey to marriage: opposites attract, soulmates, and love at first sight.

We love hearing your feedback! Please like, share, subscribe and let us know which relationship myths you've struggled with or what topics you'd like us to cover in future episodes.

We love hearing your feedback! Please like, share, subscribe and let us know which relationship myths you've struggled with or what topics you'd like us to cover in future episodes.

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As promised...here are some thought-provoking discussion questions to help you reflect and consider a biblical perspective on marriage:

1. What experiences or influences (movies, family, personal relationships) shaped your beliefs about love and marriage?
2. Have you ever seen a couple who disproved one of these myths? What made their relationship work?
3. How does your view of love and relationships align with what the Bible teaches?

Opposites Attract – The Myth of Excitement

1. Can two people with completely different values and life goals truly have a healthy, lasting marriage? Why or why not?
2. Have you ever been in a relationship where differences initially felt exciting but later caused conflict? What happened?
3. What qualities are more important in a spouse: compatibility or chemistry? Why?
4. How does Amos 3:3 ("Can two walk together unless they are agreed?") challenge or confirm your beliefs about opposites attracting?
5. Instead of focusing on differences, what should couples prioritize in a relationship for long-term success?

Soulmates Exist – The Myth of ‘The One’

1. Do you believe God created only one perfect match for each person? Why or why not?
2. If there’s only one soulmate for everyone, what happens if someone marries the ‘wrong’ person? Does that mean their marriage is doomed?
3. How does believing in soulmates affect the way people handle conflict in relationships?
4. What does the Bible say about love being a choice rather than a predestined fate? (1 Corinthians 13:4-7, Ephesians 5:25)
5. How can a couple build a strong marriage rather than just hope to ‘find’ the perfect one?

Love at First Sight – The Myth of Instant Connection

1. What is the difference between attraction and love? Can they happen at the same time?
2. Have you or someone you know ever fallen for someone quickly, only to realize later they weren’t the right person? What did you learn?
3. If love is based on emotions and chemistry alone, what happens when those feelings fade?

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Welcome to Season 2 of the WE3 The Winning Team Podcast.   WE want to extend a heartfelt thank you to all of you who listened, liked and downloaded any episode from Season One of your Podcast!  THANK YOU!  Your support means the world to us.  Please continue to like, comment, and share with your family and friends.  

WE kick off the season by acknowledging the societal shifts around marriage and exploring the motivations behind wanting to get married today. 

Is it societal pressure? A deep desire for partnership? Fear of being alone? WE dive into the "why" and challenge listeners to examine their own reasons.

With a focus on Christian values, WE discuss how this union fosters Christ-like qualities, encouraging vulnerability and growth. WE invite you to reflect on your own reasons for marriage and join us in this conversation, examining the cultural shift towards later marriages, cohabitation, and the rising influence of economically independent "alpha women."

Balancing love and individuality in marriage might seem like a daunting task, but it's the foundation of a thriving relationship.

The dynamics of modern marriage are in a state of flux, and WE delve into the balance between independence and interdependence. While exploring personal stories and societal narratives, such as the "strong Black woman" trope, WE highlight the importance of mutual support and shared responsibilities in creating a harmonious partnership. 

WE challenge the traditional 50-50 financial split, advocating for a 100-100 approach to foster unity. 

Join us as WE deliberate about the importance of self-reflection before marriage, the significance of intimacy and communication, and the role of mutual support in strengthening the bonds that make marriage a beautiful journey.

According to our research...people get married for the following reasons in 2025: 
1) Companionship & Intimacy: Finding a lifelong partner for emotional support, companionship, and intimacy.

• Pros: Reduces loneliness, provides emotional support, fosters intimacy and connection.
• Cons: Can lead to codependency, stifle personal growth, and create pressure to conform.

2) Starting a Family: Building a family and raising children together.

•  Pros: Provides a loving environment for children, strengthens family bonds, creates a sense of purpose.
•  Cons: Can put a strain on the relationship, limit individual freedom, and increase financial responsibilities.

3) Social Status & Tradition: Fulfilling societal expectations and adhering to traditional norms.

•   Pros: Can provide a sense of belonging and social acceptance.
•  Cons: Can lead to marrying for the wrong reasons (e.g., pressure from family), neglecting personal desires.

4) Financial Stability: Sharing financial responsibilities, pooling resources, and increasing financial security.

•   Pros: Can lead to improved financial stability, shared financial goals, and increased financial security.
•  Cons: Can lead to financial disagreements, power imbalances, and loss of financial independence.

5) Legal and Social Benefits: Gaining legal rights and benefits, such as inheritance rights, healthcare benefits, and tax advantages.

•  Pros: Provides legal and financial security, simplifies legal matters, and offers ce

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Girl dad's proclaim that their daughters are THE PRIZE, but as parents of a son, we declare that he is A GIFT.

A Prize

• Implies winning or achieving something: A prize is often earned or sought after. It can suggest a competitive or transactional element.
• Focus on external validation: The value of a prize is often determined by others' perceptions.
• Can create pressure: Labeling someone as a "prize" might inadvertently put pressure on them to maintain a certain image or standard.

A Gift

• Implies unconditional love and acceptance: A gift is freely given without expectation of return.
• Focus on intrinsic value: The worth of a gift is often found in its uniqueness and the thoughtfulness behind it.
• Promotes gratitude and appreciation: Recognizing someone as a gift fosters a sense of gratitude for their presence in one's life.

Are you preparing your daughters to know how to receive the gift of my son (or young men such as him)?

During this podcast, you will get the opportunity to meet Micah Gatewood, our first guest, as he shares his transformative experience from High Point University to Bradley University. Discover how Micah navigated freshman year, grew as a sports announcer, and prepared for the abundant opportunities that await him at Bradley’s prominent Sports Communication program. You’ll get a firsthand account of his ambitions, the challenges of maintaining personal values, and his enthusiasm for joining diverse clubs and internships.

Modern dating is a maze, and we’re here to guide you through it. Compare romantic gestures and communication styles from the 90s to today's trends, and understand the frustrations young men face with mixed signals in the dating scene. Through engaging anecdotes and discussions, we unravel how social media and music shape behaviors, the importance of authentic connections, and the role of mutual support and understanding in relationships. If you’ve ever wondered how to stay true to yourself while navigating modern dating's pressures, this conversation is a must-listen.

Building a strong relationship in college? We’ve got you covered. We tackle everything from aligning personal values with your partner to balancing career aspirations with personal growth. Explore the significance of love languages and the power of trust and patience in relationships. Plus, get practical advice on time management and effective communication to achieve a fulfilling relationship and personal success. With heartfelt reminders of faith and divine timing, this episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone seeking meaningful connections.

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Ever wondered how speaking to the King or Queen in your spouse can transform your communication? WE are inviting you to a candid discussion about the art of communication in marriage—a reflection sparked by our transformative experience at the "Weekend to Remember" marriage conference. We navigate the journey from casual conversation to the depths of transparency, sharing how vulnerability crafts a sanctuary for two souls to thrive. This episode is an open book about our own communication evolution and the pivotal moments that taught us the power of nurturing words within a family.

WE have worn many hats, but perhaps the most enlightening was our role as House Parents to young moms—a chapter in our lives that exemplified the ripple effect of respectful communication. Our stories from this time not only celebrate the strength in kind words but also challenge the entrenched patterns that can silently erode the foundations of our relationships. Join us as WE dissect the habits WE have inherited and the silent dangers they pose, offering insights on how to break free from the chains of our past. It's an exploration of the tools necessary to build a bridge back to one another when distance creeps in, and a reminder that dialogue is so much more than just exchanging words.

This episode doesn't shy away from the challenges of fostering an environment where transparency is not just welcomed but celebrated. WE peel back the layers of what it means to truly listen and be present, and how our attentiveness can become the bedrock for deeper connection. From navigating relationship triggers to supporting one another in complementarity, we share the intricate dance of communication that guards against creating an atmosphere of walking on eggshells. It’s about understanding the unsaid, the power of "I feel" statements, and how every word we speak reverberates into the legacy we leave behind. So, tune in and let us guide you towards enriching your own language of love and togetherness.

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Who knew that attending a Marriage conference could rekindle the sparks and teach old dogs new tricks about unity, transparency, and the art of growing as ONE? Join us on our latest WE3 Winning Team Podcast episode, where WE share our eye-opening experiences from the "A Weekend to Remember" marriage conference, and why it's a must for couples committed to becoming ONE or maintaining unity in their marriage. 

This time around, WE peel back the layers of routine that often camouflage the beauty of intentional connection. WE're talking about the nitty-gritty of maintaining oneness, steering clear of isolation, and the power of transparent communication. It's not just about what's said out loud, but what's shared from the soul. WE share our personal stories, including the triumphs and trials that have shaped our dialogue as a couple, revealing how humility and divine guidance play pivotal roles in strengthening a marriage.

Wrapping up with a rapid-fire question session that's as revealing as it is entertaining, WE invite you to share in our dreams, chuckle at our quirks, and ponder the endless adventures that marriage has to offer. Each episode is an opportunity to explore the intricate mosaic of partnership and the continuous journey of growing together – and WE can't wait for you to join us. So tune in, engage with us, and be a part of spreading the message that investing in your marriage is one of the best decisions you'll ever make.

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