Growing Dad

Weathering the Cold


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Just like the garden, winter reveals what’s resilient, what needs protecting, and where extra care is required.

Self-love & gratitude

We begin with gratitude for warmth, shelter, and safety, things that are easy to overlook until we really need them. In the garden, protection can mean fleece, mulch, or moving plants out of harm’s way. At home, it raises a deeper question: what does providing protection truly mean as a dad, emotionally as well as physically?

Inner peace & positivity

Winter is uncomfortable, and that’s okay. This section explores accepting discomfort without trying to fix it straight away. Finding peace doesn’t always mean feeling good, sometimes it means allowing things to feel hard without adding pressure or judgement.

Healing & letting go

Frost damage happens, even in well-tended gardens. I talk openly about mistakes, harsh words, and moments I wish I could take back, and how forgiveness, of ourselves and others, plays a vital role in healing and moving forward.

Relationships & connections

In the garden, we wrap plants to protect them. In family life, we do the same in quieter ways. Small acts of care, checking in, listening, being present. This part focuses on staying emotionally available, especially when things feel heavy or strained.

Mindset & self-awareness

Short days, tiredness, and pressure can change how we respond to situations. This section looks at recognising winter triggers, understanding why patience feels thinner, and how awareness helps us respond thoughtfully rather than react emotionally.

Future self & growth

Plants that survive frost often come back stronger. Hard seasons shape resilience. I finish the episode reflecting on how winter challenges, when met with care and compassion, can build stronger dads and deeper family bonds in the long run.

If this season feels tough, this episode is a reminder that simply showing up matters. Strength isn’t about avoiding the cold, it’s about weathering it together.

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Growing DadBy Lee Connelly | The Children's Gardening Coach