Have you ever noticed how much easier it is to get in other people's business instead of working on your own? It's ok to offer help but we've learned to keep our noses out of others people's problems unless they ask us to put them in. If God needs our help with them somehow He will let us know. We just need to do all that is best....pray, wait for the invite, and keep following His will for our own life. John 21:21-23