Loving them is enough! We can pray humility, peace and right thinking for those we love but we cannot force any of it on them. Their pursuit of wholeness and intimacy with God is between HIM and them. We want to help you determine who wants your help and who doesn't. For those who don't, there is no need to minimize your willingness to "just" love and pray for them. Until they are ready to receive, that's enough! 2 Corinthians 10:3-4