If you are religious or if you’ve been around religious people, then you know that religion can be exhausting. So many rules. So many things to do and other things to not do. And depending on what religious group you’re with, the list changes. But what if religion wasn’t what God is after. What if what he really wants is a relationship. While religion can drain us and rob us of joy, a real relationship with God refreshes us and fills our lives with joy.