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What are 3 Things You Want to Do Over the Holidays? - YMM #44

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Welcome! Believe it or not, the holidays are fast approaching! Today’s topic we want you to consider involves putting some thought into YOUR holiday celebrations as a couple.

*What are three things that you want to make sure that you personally get to do during the holidays?

Consider the following about this topic:

  • This topic must be agreed upon together, and requires discussion, negotiation, and planning.
  • It’s a critical conversation that speaks to our wants, needs, desires, values, and beliefs.
  • The holidays are a great opportunity for you and your spouse to start your own traditions together.
  • Each celebration is important: Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s Day.
  • Mapping things out NOW may eliminate conflict LATER.
  • There may be a conflict between partners, but it’s a time to be sacrificial and willing to compromise.
  • This is an opportunity to drill deep about beliefs concerning religion and the holidays.
  • “Just because it’s different doesn’t mean that it’s wrong.”

    • To complete this assignment, do the following:

    • Write down your three things.
    • Share them together with your partner.
    • Negotiate and create a plan.
    • Find at least one NEW tradition to start together.

      • Remember, the holidays are coming FAST! You cannot wait to address this issue in your relationship. The time is now!

      Listener Question of the Week: What is your partner’s favorite holiday?

      Fun Question of the Week: What is your favorite Christmas gift that you’ve ever received?

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      Your Marriage MattersBy Jim & Christie Jacobus
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