Listen to 3 Chinese men in America and a gender non-conforming humyn talk about their experiences of masculinity. Hear how they respond differently to emasculation myths with different coping strategies for finding dignity in their romantic relationships and general self-esteem and confidence. These experiences of internalized white supremacy can further increase toxic masculinity and misogyny. Creating space to identify the cause of feelings of shame and inadequacy would be an important to preventing toxic masculinity and also increasing activism by East-Asian men.