#1 Lie: You don't have confidence; you do BUT you've been conditioned to make life ok for others instead of you. This will steal what you must have to turn your goals into reality

#2 Lie: You have confidence but you're stuck and struggling; your confidence is in agreement with someone else to stay at this level of dysfunction. This is why you're so over-whelmed and confused because you're trying to do it for two

#3 Lie: Fake it it till you make it: you're trying to be something you're not for someone else which leads to feeling like an imposter and will lead you back to Lie #1