Aha moments! Eureka! Your Badass moment. They are a realization that you have grown. It can come from with in and it can come from the outside. They only come through action sometimes in the middle and sometimes after during review. If you are coaching people, then your goal should be to create that moment. If you are coachable then you want to experience it at least once in the coming year. Be open to be stunned so you can grow.