Hello dear soul and welcome to the Lightbearer's Library ✨.

In this journal entry, I dive into the difficult question of why we come into contact with people who create conflict, drama, or pain in our lives? The people we think of as "bad" often show up as difficult landlords, challenging partners, or complicated family members, leaving us with painful lessons.

This episode explores how these experiences can actually be a catalyst for profound personal growth.

We discuss:

- The skill of learning to trust our intuition—recognizing physical signs like a clenched stomach or muscle tension as a warning.
- Why making decisions out of desperation or fear often leads to worse outcomes, and how to protect our energy and well-being in a bad situation.
- Re-framing our focus from, "Why is this happening to me?" to "What is the lesson here?" so we can turn pain into wisdom, strength, and a clearer sense of self.

Ultimately, "What bad people reveal to us" is an opportunity to set stronger boundaries, trust ourselves more, and make better decisions for our unique, wonderful souls moving forward.

✨ I'd love to know if you have ever ignored your intuition about a person or situation and regretted it? Please share your story or your biggest lesson with me in the comments.

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If re-framing painful situations resonated with you, watch "Seeking purpose is exhausting, do this instead" (https://youtu.be/2_lA942l5qE) to help you refocus your energy and move forward with greater clarity.

XOXO,
Kate Harmony

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🌿 About Kate Harmony 🌿

My main channel (Hack Music Theory) has over 250K subscribers and 10 million views. I've been a full-time YouTuber since 2017 and launched this personal channel (Lightbearer's Library) in 2025, where I'm making video versions of my journal entries.

Some of my favourite topics to talk about are practical philosophy, positive psychology, and personality type (I'm an INFP). But honestly, my journals contain counter-cultural thoughts about everything, so expect the unexpected! I also share practical ways I'm improving my mental health, with the hope that you might find them useful too.

I deleted all my social media accounts over 10 years ago, so I offer a loving perspective that's free from the divisive language commonly found in feeds nowadays.

If this sounds like your cup of tea, then I warmly welcome you into the Lightbearer's Library. Stay for a while, and please remember to subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV2wps4NID9rrO08OuwZ5Lg?sub_confirmation=1