Where do BLACK MEN learn MANHOOD from?  Despite the OUT-OF-WEDLOCK birth rate in the BLACK COMMUNITY, studies show that BLACK FATHERS are more involved in their children lives compared to other races. The question becomes can an involved father truly teach MANHOOD from outside the home? What about men who grew up with their fathers in the home, what things did they learn that maybe other young men don't?  In the case of uninvolved fathers do BLACK MOTHERS tend to raise more emotional boys.  We ask BLACK MEN across the nation what lessons have some learned from their fathers & grandfathers that assisted their ascent into manhood?  MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK