Let's explore men's stories from their 20's to their 50's. Quote: While we sleep here, we are awake elsewhere and ... in this way every man is two men." Jorge Luis Borges. Listen to future episodes in a guidebook titled "Understanding Men's Passages" by Gail Sheehy. Subtitle: Discovering the New Map of Men's Lives. The softcover edition was published in 1998 by Ballantine Books.